ive liked this guy for 2 years but im too shy to talk to him
tomorrow is the last day of school and i want to do something to make him remember me during the summer until next year
2006-06-21 09:27:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Christy, how do you expect to get anywhere in life by using that shy crap. you aren't shy, you don't want your fragile ego bruised.
how can he remember you if he doesn't really know you, get your a'ss in there tommorrow and speak to him. give him your phone number and say, call me this summer. everyone else takes risk, are you better than them? if you are then you could get your maid to ask him for you. you want something but aren't willing to give up anything to get it.
2006-06-21 09:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't be done.
You are talking about doing something in one day that most people can't do in a year, you want to make him have feelings for you after meeting you for the first time, it can't be done.
Instead of thinking of the summer as the problem view it as the solution. You can use it to your advantage.
Sure tomorrow go to him, try and work up the nerves to wish him a nice summer or ask him how he did in a class you both took, but don't confuse your love or anything.
Then spend the next few months off building up your confidence, maybe changing your look, so when you go back to school in the fall it is a whole new you. You want him to see you and go "whose that girl?" or "Is that the shy girl who talked to me on the last day?"
So good luck.
2006-06-21 16:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have yearbooks...then this is the method you must use..some how ask for him to sign your year book so you can sign his..then write something down next to your picture in the yearbook that lets him know you like him..this is your last chance before summer...make the most of it.
2006-06-21 16:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your friend pass him a note from you. I know you can express your feelings in a letter because it's not face to face. Also, enclose a nice picture of you for him to think about you over the summer. He'll be REALLY waiting for you come the fall. Good luck, kiddo!
2006-06-21 17:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by B-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take him out to dinner and just tell him how you feel. I am shy too but if you like something dont let it just pass you by so someone else can grab him. That has happened so many times in life. Take baby steps and you will do just fine. Believe in yourself.. You can do it. Just put one foot in front of the other and take a risk it will help. start out slow and then express to him how you feel.
2006-06-21 16:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have liked him for that long and still shy for just talking to him, then yes... you have a problem.
maybe this help, approach him slowly, make sure to get his attention (fall in front of him if you really have to), if he does have any feeling for you, then he'll be the one who start a conversation (or hopefully a relationship), just be friend with him for start, ok.
don't show him your burning heart, it may or may not have an opposite effect.just to be on the safe side, don't show it. just act naturally.
2006-06-21 16:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by wongzx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him your number. WHy not hang out during the summer?
2006-06-21 16:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him you'd like to see him over the summer. Get up the guts, girl...it'll be alright either way!
2006-06-21 16:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Advice I know this may sound corny but loose control 1 shot don't let it go
or he'll be smooching Buffy
2006-06-21 16:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a small gift. Perhaps a nice picture of you in a nice frame. Or a book.
2006-06-21 16:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋