My girl friend remained with me 2 years, but she broken my heart and married to another gay, who is rich than me. my heart is badly broken. what should i do?
2006-06-21 09:16:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a poorer chick that will be more impressed with what you can provide. try the trailer parks.
2006-06-21 09:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by answers999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm so sorry. Love can absolutely smack the hell out of you, then give you a soccer kick to the stomach once you're down. What should you do? Let yourself feel the way you feel. Know that it's okay to feel absolutely hurt and miserable. Let yourself grieve, as much as it hurts, as much as it feels as though it'll never end. Cause know what? It will. I've suffered through so very much, and through time, my own strength, and a great batch of family and friends, my heart isn't broken anymore - it's better than new. Just let yourself hurt and get through each day as best you can. One other piece of advice - learn the lessons your past relationship taught you without becoming bitter or negative- it's a hard thing to do, but letting all that negativity get too deeply into your heart will only lead to other relationship disasters. Know that you did your best, but that she just wasn't the one. Through time you will heal, and in time you will find the princess that deserves you. Take care of yourself.
2006-06-21 09:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
married to another gay? maybe that was the problem, you are gay. she done what she thought would make her feel good, not what would make you feel good. you should quit bellyaching about it and think that a year or 2 down the road, you will realize that she did you a favor, sounds like you are using that rich booshyt to pamper your wounded feelings. that's the best you could come up with why she kicked you to the curb? maybe she didn't care about you. it happens, maybe the other gay was better at sex than you were. there are more females in the world, there is one out there that wants a gay like you. good luck.
2006-06-21 09:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, its hard when something like that happens. Im sure you loved her but it is better to have love and lost then to never have loved at all. My exbf broke my heart so bad I didn't know if I would ever find anyone. Then I met m y fiance. A guy who is sweet and loving and very good to me. I am getting married next month, and my ex who so badly hurt me is not lonely and single AGAIN!!! He knows Im engaged and when he tried to take me back I so happily told him to screw off!!! Baby broken hearts will mend, just give it time.
2006-06-21 09:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by msoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and break as many hearts as you can to exact your revenge on all women because your woman is just like every other woman. You know that isn't the truth and you also know what you need to do. What kind of answer did you want? It just feels like you don't know because it still hurts. That's normal. Give it a little time... everything will make sense.
2006-06-21 09:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into counseling right a way. That will really help. Get rid of all the memories. You don;t have to throw them a way just get them OUT OF Site. Think time will heal you...pray a lot...good luck
2006-06-21 09:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need such girl that only leave you for your money ,try to be a very rich gay, and find another one.if not you will be happy that find out she doesn't really love you,then don't worry
i hope that you find a very good girl that loves you of bottom of her heart
2006-06-21 09:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by mahtab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOve on and the right person will come along. Really not all relationships are meant to be. it's hard but you will be okay. read some info regarding soul mates etc and meantime relationships and then you will understand that it wasnt fair to her to be with someone she wasnt inlove with. okay look at it that way.
2006-06-21 09:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.....why are you gonna stay heart broken over a girl that is married, i dont think she's coming back.
2006-06-21 09:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by roxy100986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same spot my boyfriend of 2 years broke my heart and im still not over it
2006-06-21 09:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all get over her. and then make sure you make it clear that you are not hurt by this at even if you might be. And if she just married him for his money then why did you like her anyway.
2006-06-21 09:21:18 · answer #11 · answered by SocasteePrincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋