some people told me that my boyfriend is gay and he knows me for some social stuff how i can know if he is a gay or not by examing his body ?
2006-06-21 09:05:30 · 20 answers · asked by i love you all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him in apure loving way but choose the correct moment to know but first start with you know ( we all have mistakes stuff )
2006-06-21 14:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by marshallmedo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not about examining there bodies, it is there mind you have to get into~if you happen to have a 'gay' friend (one that is already out of the closet) let him meet your boyfriend~something about gays, they can spot another one from a mile away!!! Some men have 'gay intentions' w/o being gay~ it is called curiosity~not only that, you can never believe everything you hear!! Don't make to much out of it~enjoy the friendship that you two share with one another~if it goes further then great if it turns out the other way, be thankful for the friendship you shared~not everything has to be about~huggy~kissy~boyfriend ****!!! Good Luck to you~and just think you might have a new shopping buddy :)
2006-06-21 16:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by click 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your boyfriend is with you then that should tell you that he is not gay, and I have no idea where and how you came up with the idea that examining his body would tell you if he is gay or not because it won't, so if it is really a huge concern of yours what other people say than maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about it, honestly you can't expect to have a relationship if you can't communicate, and that is the truth, good luck to you
2006-06-21 16:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, don't beleive it, just because people are telling you that. Secondly, you CAN NOT tell if someone is gay just by looking at them. the best advice i can give you is to be upfornt about the rumors that have been going around, trust him and let him know that whatever his answer, it is okay. Don't push him away and freak out if he is gay, he will probably need your support as he probanly considers you a close friend. if he says he is not gay, believe and trust that he is telling you the truth.
Good luck
2006-06-21 16:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by plastik_persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him...let him know what you heard and ask him...don't rely
on guessing, just because he looks at a man or dresses a bit feminine doesn't make him gay..at least not all men gay.
2006-06-21 16:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell if he's gay just by looking at his body. Have you tried talking to him, just bring it up jokingly and see what his reaction is.
2006-06-21 16:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Sarah Bear ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about asking him? If he really cares about you and this is the person that you think you want to spend the rest of your life with than you deserve to know the truth..The truth may hurt but atleast you'll know!
2006-06-21 16:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most obvious way would be to have sex with him, if you have already there is nothing to worry about, tell him you want to watch pron with him see what he brings home and see how he is paying more attention too.
2006-06-21 16:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Virgo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find nothing by looking at his body ask him to bee straight with you tell you the truth but be ready to hear and accept the truth hon it may be true
2006-06-21 16:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by buttermint1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think you will find if you examine his body? a tattoo that says "i'm gay"? why don't you just ask him?
2006-06-21 16:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋