there going to like that im a virgin, and i havnt done anything sexual?. Im sexually pure, and waiting for marriage. I have no struggles with lust. I feel like its a gift, and im honoring God with this. I know this will make my marriage good, if both wait.
What bout any woman doing the same, and have no struggle with lust?
And what about any men doing the same, and have no struggle with lust?
2006-06-21 08:59:48 · 16 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wow!
I would describe you as,
A "Gift" from God!
James 1:17
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights...................
I'm expecting the one he has picked out for me!
Proverbs 18.22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing
and obtains favor from the LORD.
2006-06-21 19:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am 18 and a virgin. I'm really happy about that and plan to keep it that way for my husband.
You said that you don't struggle with lust. You also aksed if others who are virgins do? I think you need to be aware of the fact that we are all sinnful human beings that have tendencys to be lustful however godly and pure we are. The good thing is we have a God who will always forgive us when we mess up. Personaly i don't think there is anyone on earth who hasn't or will never struggle with lust at some point in their life-time. Face it...we're weak sinners, but God will always forgive us!
2006-06-21 09:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is you are in a great place. Be thankful!!! My husband and I both waited and it was one of the best things we could have done. It's been almost 7 years and we are still reaping the benefits of that choice. It's awesome! Trust me, you will be blessed. God will give you the right guy and that guy will love you for it.
People say experience is better, but there is nothing better than spending the rest of your life getting experience with the one you were meant to be with. Wait! It's the best gift you can give yourself and your future husband, and it's a gift that only gets better over time.
Many blessings.
2006-06-24 13:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great I hope the urges/lust don't get the better of you. I was not a virgin and neither was my wife, but we are both Christian and met in church and we decided to not have sex until we got married and it was a wonderful night/week of the honeymoon! ! ! Well worth the wait, and we both wish that we would have waited for each other, but we didn't! !
2006-06-21 09:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. I have been doing the same. I think that the only difference is that I have struggled a little with lust, and trust me its not easy. But i know i will find someone out there that will appreciate that and will value me gratelly, as will you.
2006-06-21 09:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am at the other end. I waited to have sex until marriage. My Husband was a virgin also. We have been married for 13 years now. I was 23 when I got married.
2006-06-21 09:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the mistake of not waiting, now I have 2 beautiful kids by 2 totally different women, the gift and the curse, my daughter was made when her mother was going through a divorce (adultry) and my son was made before I found out his mother was a psychopath (could maybe result in murder). I guess you should know the person inside out before you lay with them, and consequently, before you marry them. Don't give in and stay solid in your abstinence, it has to be better than bringing children into THIS system!
2006-06-21 09:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Inthisskin,
I praise the Lord for your testimony!! I do not have any counsel for you, except to say, When you follow the Lord's way--it is always the best way!
I listen to Family Radio. You can find your local station by typing www.familyradio.com into your web browser. Family Radio has really been a blessing to me and I hope that it will be a blessing to you.
2006-06-21 09:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it is the BEST situation.
That was my goal, but when dating begins, things are much more difficult in the lust department. I'm married now.
If you can find the right guy and both of you wait,
marraige is the way it was intended.
2006-06-21 09:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by p3jedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are but you need to look for them where noble men of character hang out... if you go to the sewers you will find rats... so use wisdom and sound judgment in your search.
2006-06-21 15:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by ddead_alive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋