I dont even know why he wants me to still be the girl on the side. We dont see eachother often. We just talk. Me and his girl are complete opposites. He obviously doesnt want to leave her, but he doesnt want me to leave. What do I say? What do I do?
2006-06-21 08:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by killerwomo02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make it easy for him- LEAVE HIM!!- don't stand to be second best! you are a person to! you deserve to be number one in someones life! good luck!
2006-06-21 08:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up and Wake Up!
Even if he left her - what do you think he will do to you when he meets someone else...He will leave you...
In every sentence you wrote above you said: HE... Stop thinking about him and become selfish. Stop talking to him. If he doesn't stop talking to you tell him you will put an order of protection on him. HE might think you are crazy, but he will leave you alone.
Stop making yourself a girlfriend and become a woman. Become a Trophy. When a trophy is issued it usually 1st place, 2nd place, and 3rd place. Never have I heard them say, "We have two 1st place winners.
You already know the answer, but you just want to be able to tell your friends you have a MAN. If this man has you and another girlfriend what is to stop him from having more. One for each day of the week....
BE SELFISH!!!!
THINK ONLY ABOUT YOURSELF
Learn how to love yourself. Love yourself so that even if you think a man is talking to another woman... He cannot talk to you.......
YOU ARE A TROPHY - SO ACT LIKE ONE
2006-06-21 16:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Khakyil48 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You gotta live your life, dont wait on his. If he says he doesnt wanna leave his girlfriend that becuz she's giving him somthing that you dont. Maybe there's a connection between them... Girl on the side needs to live her life. Dont waste your feelings on someone who doesnt want them. Dont settle for a guy who will only be there when HE NEEDS you... If you leave, chances are, if he really wants you, he'll come and find you.
2006-06-21 15:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Abstract Expression 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say enough is enough and get a life of your own...that's what you should do...your a piece of someone Else's life, he has a life and its missing something from it, he finds that in you so your included but only as part of it not to be considered a significant part of it...nor enough to convince him your more worthy than his gf...of course he doesn't want you to leave..having his cake and eating it too...but whats wrong is wrong and you need to do whats right for you...kick him to the curb, find a real man who will treat you like a whole women...good luck.
2006-06-21 16:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but men like that are only looking out for their own best interest and that is to have you both. My advise is to let the girlfriend know what is going on. (wouldn't you want to know if you were being cheated on) then walk away from him, he is no good for any woman.
2006-06-21 15:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some self respect and stop being the other woman.
2006-06-21 15:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hardly likely that he will leave his girl and you already now this he just wants to now that your available for his convenience.
2006-06-21 15:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. if he can't be there for you when you need, than how can you expect him to be in your life in the future. guy are selffish, but you don't have to wait for him. leave him and find someone else that deserve you
2006-06-21 15:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to take a decision.
2006-06-21 15:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by Yahoolian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. If he's cheating on her, he will do it to you. He has no respect for you if he expects you to wait patiently until he's done with her!
2006-06-21 15:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋