Ok, my crush is dating this horrible girl. She treats him like crap. He gets yelled at for going and seeing his uncle with colon cancer instead of coming to her graduation party. Yeah that's the least of it. So it gets worse. His friends want him to break up and his parents want him to break up. So he told me when he did He would o out with the person of his dreams. I didn't think I was that girl but he told me that i was. I really like him but he and his soon to b ex girlfriend was my friend. What do i do?
2006-06-21 08:48:52 · 22 answers · asked by coolgurlmolly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was my friend but now she's kinda just left me hanging
2006-06-21 08:58:32 · update #1
"always listen to your heart". The question is not "whay do i do?" but "do you love him?" If yes, then go on for it. You say fo his soon ex-gf : was friend. Then, what's the problem?!! Go for it, if you don't try, you may loose sth really great!!!
2006-06-21 08:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by smaragda 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy as much as you say, and this girl was as horrible as you say, I dont see any problem. You stay out of the way while they break up so that it doesnt seem like you caused it. Then after a week or so, if the guy and you are still interested in dating... you date.
2006-06-21 15:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it when it happens and remember that boys come and go, but friendships can last a long time. Also, consider how your friend treats you, is she as mean and selfish when it comes to friendships too?? If so, sounds like she needs a reality check in the form of you and this boy hooking up....
2006-06-21 15:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful about trying to break up a relationship. If it's that easy for you to break up the relationship he has with this girl, how easy will it be for someone else to break up the relationship he might have with you?
2006-06-21 15:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"All is fair in love and war" If she's really your friend then why didnt she know he was your crush (or did she) and if she dose know then she should understand. She might be a little upset, but if she is really your friend she'll get over it.
2006-06-21 15:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by roxy100986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart!
2006-06-21 15:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was your friend, you have nothing to worry about.
she doesnt sound like a nice person...if she comes up to you, just tell her you like him and that you'll treat him better.
2006-06-21 15:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too much drama. Go get someone that doesn't have that much drama. It's so worth it.
2006-06-21 15:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by franny4181 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it shouldnt matter. if 1 of them is mad about that then tell them sorry that its ur life and that u can do what ever u want to do with it.
2006-06-21 15:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by iluv_whitetigers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let them alone. if your her friend and want him sooo badly you need to tell her that and thats all.., leave the sleeping dog lie
2006-06-21 15:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋