I have the opposite problem of most men. I last way too long during sex. Sometimes I don't ever .... release my pressure.... during sex. Am I trying to hard to please her and not enough on myself?
2006-06-21 08:32:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
learn to relax. I was married for 15 years and had to last at least 40 minutes because my wife was frigid. (I feel bad for her next husband) Once I started dating again I was so nervous sometime I'd go for 2 hours because I didn't want to let the girl down. No I try to relax and spend more time making her happy and trying to time the climaxes together. Think about something really erotic when you think she about to ***. And ask her to be vocal about it.
2006-06-21 08:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by dbelyew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean not literally but i get the pic i feel that in order to climax u have to get off. think of nasty things that turn u on or tell ur girl to talk dirty to u or do dirty things to u sometimes ,i think, when a guy is exhausted its hard for them to climax like when my guy gets home from playin b ball with the boys i think girls should be just as concerned about pleasing there guy like their guys is about pleasing them basically try new things if sex is boring its hard to enjoy it
2006-06-21 08:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think of yourself sometimes. Me and boyfriend had that problem when we first started. He was just so busy pumping, humping, pumping, and humping that he wasn't really into what he was doing so we had to slow down and talk about that. It's wasn't fair for neither or us. Then that problem was solved when we started enjoying each other.
2006-06-21 08:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Imustknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno but i know alot of girls who would kill to have u in bed with them lol..most guys dont last too long! i think u have it good if u cud just leanr how to realease the pressure at the end u wud be like a sex god lol. it may not be a problem u can fix,...u really shud ask a dr even if u get emabrassed!
2006-06-21 08:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it, because im sure the women you sleep with are. And they should feel lucky to have a guy that can pleasure them for so long..
2006-06-21 08:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a desensitized penis problem. Too much masterbation-booze-cigarettes or a foreskin can contribute to this problem. Check out yourself to see if one of these things could be the cause.
Good luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-21 08:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by wolftatx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I wouldn't want to change that. That's a great thing to have. There's plenty of women who would want their man to last long.
2006-06-21 08:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby there's nothing wrong with you that just means you're better than most men. i say the longer and stronger, the better! keep up the good work and any woman that's with you is damn lucky!
2006-06-21 08:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by honeiibunz09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you think your going to make her *** from intercourse your sadly mistaken. Oral is the best way to please her. Then when she's done you can hop on and enjoy.
2006-06-21 08:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself the reward at the end, relax and shoot away.
2006-06-21 08:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋