What is the best way to meet nice ladies? I asked questions before on here, and I'm the cute guy that has all I need except a sweet "cute" lady. Where can I go to meet the nice ladies? I work 8-5, run in the hills by my house after work or lift weights in my fitness room, stay home most of the time because I enjoy being home...I go on motorcycle rides and golf on weekends, but those around me are always men...help ladies!
2006-06-21 08:31:41 · 12 answers · asked by TheShield 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What about changing your environment when you're out running? A local park is always a good place to meet people. Especially during the summer, when people are more likely to head outdoors. Volunteering isn't for everyone, but I've known a lot people who meet up that way. And the majority of volunteer organizations are women. Maybe find a project once a month and meet different people.
Basically, it's just getting out and trying something new that's outside of your comfort zone. You say you like being home, but in order to meet cute girls, you have to get yourself out of the house and try new things. Plus, you might find a new hobby that you enjoy.
Good luck!
2006-06-21 08:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you telling me you NEVER see a cute lady in all that you do? EVER? not even jogging, there isn't another lady jogger you may have your eyes on? any female weight lifters that catch your fancy...I would try meeting people at the places you frequent because automatically you will have something in common. Also, though you enjoy being home, your not going to meet any ladies there except the porn stars that are hiding in your video collection
Places NOT to look
at the bar
online through chat rooms
work (unless you like things being weird)
You sound almost too good to be true..kinda like the guy from American Psyco...Your not obsessive compulsive with a love for reciting what face/hair/skin products you use are you?
2006-06-21 08:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you sound like my type... but yeah you could always try online dating, it's so much better than what it used to be, that's where I met my ex, and it wasn't bad at all. Other than that if you want to meet someone, you're going to have to actually put yourself out there and go to a bar with the guys or something where you can meet females. There are many different ways of meeting a nice girl, you just have to keep your eyes and heart open.
2006-06-21 08:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, very interesting. Ok, I will just be blunt here.
If you want to mingle, you will find time. But it appears that you may not really want to find time, seems you are primarily interested in fullfilling your own needs and desires. Not directing alot of attention to the needs of others.
Perhaps you should consider that women have a tendency to change things and demand that you give up some of your time. If you are not willing to sacrifice time to build relationships, perhaps you should not be so eager to persue them.
You get what you give. So give what you want.
Volunteer, work polictical functions, accept invites to parties, go to Super Centers and grocery stores.
Heck I met a guy at a gas station. I was checking my oil and he stopped to lend a hand. We are still friends to this day.
I really don't know you personally, so my comments are made strictly on the content of your question.So forgive me if I overstepped.
2006-06-21 09:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by mstaxlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could join an exercise club or sports & fitness facility for classes; there most likely would be ladies there who would be very likely to share your interests. Or you could try on-line dating. Cupid.com is not bad, plentyoffish.com is free. You sound quite wonderful - some lady will be lucky, I'm sure. Enjoy the search!!
& Good Luck!!
2006-06-21 08:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother, you've got a nice life going on for ya, be proud, now, all you need is a nice attitude.
Let me tell you what, the only way you can find a nice girl is to cut your loses fast, and I mean fast, brush off the girl your talking to fast if she's not your type, stop wasting time on the wrong girl!
2006-06-21 08:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by None 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date site, like udate.com...I was the same way ( stay at home alot, after working it was my haven). I am not knocking it...but i am not the Bar scene type..and I placed my profile on there...you will meet alot of cool people. Hopefully develop a relationship like did....Best wishes to you!!!
2006-06-21 08:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just keep your eyes open. You can meet people anywhere. Do you go to church? Join some kind of club. Or you could always try one of those internet dating sites.
2006-06-21 08:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by loviebunnie2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you've found interests you like...but if you want to meet ladies you need to find interests where there are also ladies...a cooking class, a dance class....a local singles club...i'm in the same boat as you..trying to find a nice guy..I think I need to take my own advice LOL
2006-06-21 08:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the malls and go to the gym (not the one inside your house) and go out with some guy friends to a club or someting.
2006-06-21 08:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋