What gets the attention? My corvette? My clothes? If its not looks, what is it? My Harley? My physique? My smile? My vocabulary? My shoe size? All men want to know...
2006-06-21 08:15:25 · 19 answers · asked by TheShield 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eye contact, self confidence, a great smile, sense of humor and cleanliness do it for me.
If a guy is acting like a conceited moron...I want nothing to do with him.
Cheesy pick up lines are major turn offs too unless it's said jokingly as a conversation starter.
2006-06-21 08:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok its weird because at the beggining of the term ( im a popular girl; cheerleader ) this guy from Equador ( south America ) came and because im half Spanish ( papa's Spanis; f.y.i where i get my looks from ) so i got stuck with the Equadorian. Everyone said he was weird and ugly ( ok, ya , a bit on the ugly side ) but we started to sit next to each other in class ( oh how much and my beloved friends hated that...) but Henri was a really nice guy, not like any other. I though omg im interested! I like a nice guy withy a nice smile and that can crack a joke when your feeling down... I helped Henri find his STYLE , and now everyone is after him and now he speaks perfect English. About a year after he asked me out and i said yes.
Getting to the point, it doesent really matter. Just be yourself, that what Henri did and that won my heart.:=)
2006-06-21 16:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me looks are secondary. I am truthful about this the personality and the ability to make me laugh. I love to laugh. If you can do that, you pretty much have me. Well, you know what they say about a man's shoe size.....that doesn't hurt either.
2006-06-21 15:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm looking for a guy it's looks to start out with. Then when I start to get to know him and he has a bad personality then I get rid of him. If an average guy approaches me I give him the same chance as any other guy.
2006-06-21 15:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks ARE important.
But if you're not that handsome, I'm still attracted to the way you walk & how confident you appear.
I love a guy that knows he has something going for himself.
2006-06-21 15:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are usually considered first, but only gold diggers would want you for your car or money. After your looks have caught our eye then we pay attention to your personality.
2006-06-21 15:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks sort of matter. It's the smile in your eyes that counts for me. If there's a genuine smile in your eyes, it's sincere.
2006-06-21 15:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your eyes, looking into them I want to see kindness and evidence of a soul, the way you carry yourself, your shoulders (if I can see them) your smile, the way you talk to me, the way you talk to others..I especially dislike loud obnoxious people who are always playing the one-up game...yeah and I guess if you have a harley, that helps
2006-06-21 15:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone judges by looks first. That's just how society works. Personality is usually second.
2006-06-21 15:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by loviebunnie2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voice. The way you move and might open doors. There's just an air of confidence.
2006-06-21 15:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋