God made the world and there wuz probly a reason why she died but she wuz driving on da highway wen a 12 wheeler ran ove he and cut off he head! i have beed spendin time with my family and i just cant get my mind off of her! she loved me and i loved her as much bak! help me plz!
2006-06-21 08:14:12 · 28 answers · asked by god_jesus_rules 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you say 5 weeks 5 post down says last night same story by another member word for word. what gives?
2006-06-21 08:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for you. My condoleances. It is normal to suffer, and five weeks is a short time-however-to cure your pain. I have lost my great-grandmother when I was 7. Though she was very old-she died at the age of 95-I sufferde a lot after her death. Nobody helped me recover-but time healed my wounds. So, let time heal your wounds, too. Pray to God for your mother's soul.Try to care of yourself-no matter how hard you find it. You must be strong for the rest of your family. They really need your support-I assure you. If they see you are grieving, they will grieve, too. Most importantly, don't exaggerate with showing your feelings. We live in a mean world - I am sorry to tell you that - and there are some people that really enjoy to see you in pain. Share your feelings with the ones you really trust.
I am quite young and I'm not good at giving advice. I only tried to speak from the heart and to share my experience with you. May the Lord give you the peace you need.
2006-06-21 08:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, this is one of the saddest and most traumatic things that could happen to you. With time, and if you allow yourself to feel all your feelings, you will get better. You will never fully recover, that's how life is. But those life trials make us stronger and more empathetic. When I say allow all your feelings, I don't mean only cry as much as you need to. I also mean, be angry, including at God. He will forgive you. Be stupid and dream it did not happen. Allow yourself all your feelings to come out. Take your time. Then, when you start feeling stronger, get slowly back into your routine, and always honor her memory. Live the way she would have liked you too. If you slip sometimes, know she understands. Her soul is alive and in heaven.
2006-06-21 08:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never prepared for situations like these. It is never easy to lose a loved one... Don't be afraid to cry it out - it helps relieve the stress of grieving. Talk it out. Seek consolation from family and friends.
I'm sorry that you lost your mother in such a tragic, unexpected way. I'm sure, no matter how hard it is to hear, she is, at least in a better place now where she is free from pain and suffering. God bless you and your family. He will help you through this difficult time!
My prayers are with you.
2006-06-21 08:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Q&A Monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my father past away it was a year when I finally started to heal. There will always been times when you'll reflect on a lesson thought to you; a kind word; the hug or kiss; a joke; or a special family moment. They say time heals. The best thing you can do is to encourage yourself and others to take advantage of the time we do have with love ones and friends. Time isn't a promise. You'll do well, and don't expect overnight healing. She meant too much to you for that to occur.
2006-06-21 08:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say everyone's time to die is already known to God when someone is born. That everyone dies for a reason..even a reason we don't understand.
That isn't helping you much right now. Grieving takes time..you won't be over it overnite.
Remember always the good relationship you and your mom shared. She will always be with you,watching over you and guiding you. God and your family will help you thru this trying time.
Each day it will get just a bit easier,,,you'll never forget but good memories will replace the matter of her death.
Hang in there,her love and your love of God will see you thru.
2006-06-21 08:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Smartypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ho I am sorry for your lost, but is only one person that can help and that person is GOD, he will be the only one who can help you at this time no matter what we all say right now he will be your best help, pray go to church if you have one or may be a friend who is a Cristian you may say but, I want some one to listen to me, well he is the one, will help see thing better also she is an a better place than us she is not suffering. well take care and remember life continues OK. GOD bless you.
2006-06-21 08:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Luz F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what type of help you are looking for. My mom was my best friend and we spent almost all of our time together. She died in February from a heart attack. I miss her everyday but I know that she taught me to be strong and stand on my own. You too have to be strong. But I understand it is still hard. I still cry all of the sudden. I still miss her and want to see her. I want to tell her how my day went. I know I can't but it isn't wrong not to want to. Remember that. Be strong. And in time it doesn't consume you as much. The sad feeling will drift in and out but it will no longer be there all the time. Be strong and make your mom proud.
2006-06-21 08:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetheart_22_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are really young. Why on earth would someone tell you the grizzly details of your mother's death? Why should you have to know that her head was cut off? It's hard to believe...either way, I will pray for you. It's just going to take time, even though the pain never completely goes away.
2006-06-21 08:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by candy0813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss. I lost my father 8 yrs. ago. It's tough, and it will be for awhile. It may be hard to believe this right now because you are going through so much, but things will get better. Hang in there. It is good that you have your family. That can help a lot.
2006-06-21 08:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, my condolences. I am so sorry, i always hurts when loved ones get taken away from you, too fast. My advice is, that you should spend more time with one of your family member and just cry, don't hold it in, just cry and tell that person how hurt you really are. And if that doesn't help, see a psychiatrist, it's not for crazy people, but for hurt people to.
2006-06-21 08:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by Girly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋