Yeeah granted I am a Bigger sized guy!! I May not have the greatest looks of lets say a matt Damon, But I get told alot Im A Cutie, i have a babyface.. I have the Best Personality from what Ive been told, i use my humor to make up for me being a bigger guy.. I've got the Chris farely/Dave Chappelle personality, and the hopeless romantics of prince charming.. my Problem is most girls see me as just a friend and nothing more! i know how to treat a woman, but I feel like the movie 'just friends" is about me except im still the bigger guy.. anybody with words of wisdom or advice, or even women intrested lol
2006-06-21 08:03:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would much rather a big guy than a scrawny guy. I like being in the arms of a big ole guy who makes me feel safe. Like laying my head on his chest and feeling his arms around me...
But listen, I'm not so sure that women see you as the "friend" because you're big - I think it's because you're the "good guy". Sweet, caring, compassionate, reliable & the one with the great personality. The one who girls KNOW won't hurt them. Give it time, all girls go for the bad boys for a while, but don't fret honey after awhile we come running to the good guys...the ones that have heart and soul.
Take care...
2006-06-21 08:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed that very attracive women\girls like bigger just as much as the smaller or average sized ones...I work at Walmart and see lots of couples all the time..and its not that females look for the "perfect " man just by looks..a real person who actually cares and IS looking for a "mate" will be open to looks AND personality. I have dated all of the above sized men and what really mattered to me was if they made me laugh and treaded me right. And if I didnt just get married yes I would be interested very much ...to me, a sence of humor and making me laugh are the most important things..hope you have better luck, go to a bar or something with your friends and just be yourself..your time will come too.
2006-06-21 08:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman cant see past the outside,or accept you for who you are,she isnt worth your time.Most of us "normal folk"dont look like Matt Damon or Britney Spears,ya know?Ihonestly wouldnt want too,I like me for me,and if someone doesnt like me because of the way I look,well that is there problem.Let a girl get to know the real you,the person on the inside,that is the most important thing,when it comes to a relationship,ya know.Cause lets face it,personality is everything,well to me anyways,hehe!Good luck!!
2006-06-21 08:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love big guys. I've dated the narcissistic meathead, and I'd take a teddy bear guy over him any day. I know it's frustrating, you're always "just a friend", but in the end you will get the quality girl :)
2016-05-20 09:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on being yourself. My bf is a bigger guy. He's 6'4" and approx. 280lbs... he was bigger when we started dating.
I'm really small 5'2" and 130lbs and have always been attracted to guys bigger then me.
It's just a personal thing. Everyone is attracted to different shapes, sizes and personalities.
Just keep looking, you'll find her.
2006-06-21 08:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just be yourself because i have that same problem. If you just try to be yourself then you will find that special someone who sees you as more than a friend because, believe it or not, girls like guys who can be honest to them and just be themselves. If you try and change who you are then you will be miserable and you would just be going out with that someone just because you pretended to be someone your not and that is not good for you to be in that kind of relationship.
2006-06-21 08:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dating a big guy who was feeling a lot like you are. But he's great, and it never occurred to me not to date him because he's big. You'll find someone. :D
One thing to consider, though, "if" you're looking for little skinny hot chicks, then you're doing the same thing they're doing. If this is what you're doing, open your horizons a little.
2006-06-21 08:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwww! the way your talking is cute! i guess its the way you talk you give a frendly attitude thats why girls see you as their best frend kinda thing! well im not just a pretty lil face am also a slim petite girl but have a big guy.. so trus me there's a girl out there waiting for ya sumwher keep searching.... the best o luck...
2006-06-21 08:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww sweety, its ok. in all honesty, i'd rather be with someone who has a great personality and can make me laugh rather than somone who's shallow. and you seem like the previous type.my last boyfreind was a big dude but i loved it cause he was like a teddy bear. keep ya head up.
2006-06-21 08:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by hot2maly2582 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....I'm only interested in bigger guys...they're much more affectionate and sweet...and I feel safe with a big guy...I hate guys with big muscules and skinny guys are gross!!! come here baby!! lol...you'll find someone who will appreciate you for who you are!!! good luck hunnie!
2006-06-21 08:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by *~*hunnie*bunnie*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋