a year back i proposed to a charming, understanding, beautiful girl to whom i promised of remaining commited. Everything was smooth untill i met this girl, i got attracted towards her b'coz she was simple, beautiful & mature by behaviour, i am piscean & she is capricorn (favourable), but she isn't of my reliegon & is elder than me by 1yr.however i feel deeply (infatuated/in love)?? with her,however she is unaware of my feelings & i don't know whether she thinks of me any more than a friend... i am totally confused, at the same time i have my girlfriend who loves me truly & deeply & even i (like her/love her)?? very much, whenever i try to think abt. the outcome of this matter, it makes me feel guilty, b'coz i feel i am decieving such a true person & playing with her emotion as i have kept this affair a total secret , for the fear of loosing my current girlfriend whom i like very much.at the same time i am not able to get this girl out of my head & have remained constantly in touch with
2006-06-21 07:49:40 · 4 answers · asked by mtandon1983 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK the grass is NEVER greener on the other side. If you want to get rid of the feelings for this other girl, you need to avoid her all together. out of sight out of mind. Do you really love your girlfriend? Can you be with only her for the rest of you life? If not then you need to be honest with her and let her get own with her life.
2006-06-21 08:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same situation like u...
all i will jus say, even though i perfer the other guy, but y waste time on someone who doesnt even know than someone who loves u more?
2006-06-21 07:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not ready for a commitment. You shouldn.t be engaged if you are not sure if you love her. If you arent ready for commitment, you need to let your girl know and quit messing with her emotions.
2006-06-21 07:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by loviebunnie2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. Sometimes you have to suck it up and hurt.
2006-06-21 07:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋