why is it that in today's society so strung up on women are suppose to be thin, and trophy type women. do people not realize that being big sometimes really isn't that person's fault, that it can be a medical thing and there is nothing they can do about it, do peiople think that rediculing someone is going to make things any better. you know i have come to see lately that bigger women tend to be more loving towards there partner, and this is because they aren't as worried about there appearance as the smaller women. what do you men out there think about this, why are you so hard on women and wont give a big woman a chance? and women why do the smaller ones think they are better than the big ones.. ?/\
2006-06-21 07:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by cheryl m 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
It works both ways. When I was young & thin I had plenty of big women accusing me of being a slut & everything else bad when I did not even date! At one time I was dating someone & they quit seeing me to go out with some big girl just because she would sleep around & I wouldn't!
And what size you are has nothing to do with how loving you are toward your partner. Jerks come in all sizes, big & small. And face it: Some peopel are not going to like you no matter how you look.
The majority of people that have weight problems do not have have them BECAUSE of medical problems---they have medical problems because of weight problems. I am not near as thin as I would like to be & I never will be but this does not mean that I sit on my butt all day making the problem worse. At least I try!
It seems like you need to try to work on that & your self-esteem!
2006-06-27 08:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It isn't so much mere appearance as it is a health issue, darlin' A heavy woman might be a most loving and giving person - my mother was - but she's also destined to an adulthood of increasingly frequent illness, eventual disability and an early death. All of that may not be her fault, but in most cases she can, if she'll put in the effort, exercise quite a bit of control over her weight.
I look at it like this: if you're all that loving, you want me to be happy for a long, long time, and you will therefore keep yourself in good health so you'll be the one who sticks around to make sure I have that kind of life. I, of course, should jolly well reciprocate in kind, keeping myself fit, hale and hearty all for you!
Sorry - but I wouldn't date a heavy woman because I don't want us to have kids and then have her become disabled or die while they're still small. It's absolute h e l l on a kid to lose a parent, and I'll be d a m n e d if I'll set up my own kids for that kind of disappointment by marrying a fattie.
If, on the other hand, you develop, through no fault of your own, an illness that leads to obesity, I'll stick with you - most of us still say "until death do us part". But be aware that obesity due to illness is RARE, and I won't buy a line of bull about it. Capisce?
2006-06-21 08:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-20 11:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society in this country has been brainwashed to believe that beauty on comes in one package which is blonde, blue eyed and 110 pounds. Almost everytime you turn on the television you will see some woman that looks like she eats once a week, and were told that this is beautiful. Every magazine promoting beauty has an image of a skinny woman with no curves about her whatsoever, and were to believe that this is beauty.....gimme a break. Beauty comes from within and when we all accept that fact we will no longer see so many cases of anorexia.
2006-06-21 07:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's personal preference. There are plenty of men that do like big women.
By the way, ANYONE can lose weight. If you burn more calories than you consume, you will lose weight.
2006-06-21 07:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People generally despise overweightness in other people. I do see certain attitudes of non acceptance from other people as an un-appealing form of immaturity that they carry.
2006-06-21 07:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have another hot dog you fat slob and stop whining.
2006-06-21 07:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bamski 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋