My BF came up to me and tolled me some of our friends were cutting. I tolled him never to do it. He replyed by saying he has already started. I didn't yell at him or anything I just tolled him I was disappointed and wanted him to stop. I found out he still does it how do I help him stop?
2006-06-21 07:42:34 · 17 answers · asked by ♥*~*♥chEErios♥*~*♥ 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I case u dont know cutting is were u take a sharp object and cut ur bodie either out of depression or a cry for attention.
2006-06-23 15:33:47 · update #1
In case u dont know cutting is were u take a sharp object and cut ur bodie either out of depression or a cry for attention.
2006-06-23 15:33:59 · update #2
Stop feeding him beans and eggs and his flatulence should subside.
2006-06-21 07:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex does the same thing I call him ex bc he just told me he started doing it again the day before yesterday...i hated that ,u know its like u feel like yr supposed to be the one that should make him stop like he should think of u and u should be the reason for his happiness. Everytime we fought he cut and cut and not just one line it was long erratic bursts of open wounds all up his arms and it sickened me so much...yr bf and my ex have some real problems honey and u should get out of the relationship because sooner or later he will use u as an excuse to cut when things become bitter or do not go as he wanted and its so hard keeping guys like these happy sweets. U cannot help him stop and if he is only doiung it to become a part of some evanescent trend then he obviously does not give enough hell about u mine didnt and scars will never be beautiful, and just a little fact I cut for a while too but I saw how it impacted my body the scars on my thighs are always going to be there and u know something that never heals and i quit after realizing that about a year ago...i just tried to see if i could help someone else in order to help myself and u know what it didnt work babe. u cannot save him oh and what these ppl r saying about getting him help no stay out of it k? Its an internal struggle of his own u shouldn't try to be a hero let him live it and u get away and eventually i dont know when someone will reach out to him but yr too vulnerable and if u told he would hate u even tho this whole thing is jsut a cry for attention let it be his war baby just let him face it alone
2006-06-21 07:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting.. on his arm?...
My husband used to do that...
It's a very bad habbit... when you are mad and you think of doing something.. usally the end result is you do what you think.
Remind him.. that everyone will know one day.. b/c of scars all of his arms.
Then it really is just a sign to any future friends that you've got problems!!!!
You should try and influence him in good ways, to not do what his friends do... and that it's stupid. Real Stupid
You want to try and create a mind effect.. like you wouldn't put your finger in the fan b/c it will get cut off...
Well, if he gets brought to the mental ward for something and they see the scars.. they will defently keep him longer than a few days...
PS if you are young with a BF that's doing that... you might want to find someone better for you...
Dealing with other peoples mental problems really takes away from your happiness with life.. I speak with experience.
2006-06-21 07:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by angelsheart24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, if he is under 18, his parents should be the ones to handle this. Otherwise, physically drive him to the hospital----a good citizen is obligated to report this kind of stuff. Hopefully this will stop. He needs counselling.
2006-06-21 07:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by h2o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am i guy who had the same problem .. My Girlfriend got me to stop by telling me how much it would hurt her if i was gone, and all you the other people it would hurt, and if i died that she would do the same and then said "promise me you wont ever do that again" then she would lean forward and kiss me X_X ...... come to think of it i miss her... :)
*Later edit* the worst ting you could do is tell his parents thats what one of my friends did, ended up yes getting a counselor but then our friendship ending and having my parents not trust me.
Hope Ive helped
2006-06-21 07:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by gdog4159393 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact the police or social services (if he's under 18) or tell his parents or a counselor at school
plain and simple. the guy has got issues if he's a cutter
2006-06-21 07:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by reanimated11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop and then if he continues to proceed tell someone else his parents or take him to a psycologist, this is a diease he needs help.
2006-06-21 07:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by mumu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His parents need to get help for him right away. He has pent up rage and depression. It could get much worse.
2006-06-21 07:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know what that means. Tell him to stop being crazy and be normal. Why are kids so weird?
2006-06-21 07:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by pumpjackraiders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off.
2006-06-21 07:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Blim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋