im gonna have sex with my gf tommarow do u think itll be ok?

Question

thursday we both wanna do it

Answer 1

I am going to assume you and her are two young, young persons and really do not understand all of the facts that goes alone with such an adult thing, I am not your parent but, I am a parent and if one of my shorties (kids) came and told me they were ready for such a big thing, I would have to say. "No it's not going to be okay"
I would ask certain questions like:
Where do you & her plan to do such a thing?
What about protection?
How old is she/he?
I mean there are a lot of things that the two of you such think about, and I would only say,
Why not just wait til you get a little older?
Why do it have to be next week on thrusday, why can't it be much later when you know this is really what you and she really want do?
I hope that by next month you will not be asking advice on what do to about being a teen-parent....
Good Luck on making the right decsion.

Answer 2

A Very BIG, BOLD, NO!!! You didn't even spell the word tomorrow correctly! If you can't get your grammar correct then just maybe you should concentrate more on educating yourself on sex and waiting till you are married! See it's like this sweetie, you can't miss anything you've NEVER had nor tried! Have you gotten sex ed. from your peers, parents, or teachers? You should first discus these issue with your parents. You can also ask your doctor. Bottom line, waiting is so much better than giving into the temptations of the unknown feelings. Just say NO!

Answer 3

Heh. This quesion made me laugh out loud. Nothing better than spontaneous sex!

Okay, here's what you need to know:

1. if you're both virgins, then you're both stressing about it, and you would do well to accept the fact up front that it will be, on some level, disappointing to you both. Movies and television work very, very hard to set you up with an unrealistic expectation of what sex is like.

2. knowing that this is going to be the first of many, many, many times that you have sex (with this girl, or with someone else), this is your chance to prove you're a terrific man instead of a horny little boy. For this first encounter, pay attention to her. Make sure she's enjoying herself. Look for cues that she wants you to do something more, or do it differently, or knock it off entirely. Your job for this first encounter is to make sure that she walks away from it amazed at what a great guy you are -- that way, you'll get to do it again and again.

3. unlike girls at this age (for whom having an orgasm is difficult, if not impossible, until they learn more about their bodies and learn to ask for what they want), boys have a really easy time having orgasms. Don't worry about having one. Don't try to have one. Don't think "hey, what about me?" -- you'll be very, very lucky not to have one before you want to. If you're like most young boys, the first time a girl so much as touches you down there, you'll have an orgasm. Some kids even masturbate just before the date, to decrease the likelihood of this embarrasing situation.

Finally, remember this: sex is great, but orgasms are only a small part of it. You're not porn stars, you're people, and you should above all make sure everyone -- not just you -- is having a good time.

And use protection, and so on. That's a given, right? RIGHT? heck, if I were you, I'd skip vaginal sex entirely for this encounter, and please each other in other ways.

Answer 4

It really depends on how old you two are and how long you have been in the relationship. Anything younger than 17 is a big mistake. I know you have heard this before, but what is rush? I am a female and personally wouldn' t want to have sex for the first time with a first timer. It is already awkward enough and with two beginners that pretty much says it all. If you do have sex, use a condom!!!

Answer 5

Probably not young one, I think you guys should wait until you don't have to ask anyone. You are not ready, maybe you two should visit a library and get some books on sex, unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases. In the words of one favorite singers Janet Jackson "Let's wait a while" You probably know nothing about that song but she was talking about having sex for the first time and she was telling this guy that they should wait a liitle longer there is no rush. Maybe you should Goggle her and look up that song it is a really lovely song. Peace.

Answer 6

Having sex is a real big responsibility..Sex can change a person's life forever..Are you prepared for that?

Whether the girl becomes pregnant or you contract HIV or worst both..Today having sex can be very dangerous! I say wait..Wait until you are mature enough to make better decisions..It may be cool to talk with your friends about having sex and what she did to you. But the question you have to ask yourself is...Is it really worth it?

Neither pregnancy or contracting a disease can happen if you don't have sex..I say wait until you are married!

Answer 7

You shouldnt do it, wait till your married. If you guys set a date then your too young and its not love. Sex is between a man and a woman who are married. Are you sure your ready for how emotional your girlfriend is going to be afterwards, she is going to be 10 times more obsessed with you, question you about all sorts of things. I hope your gonna use protection if you do. DO YOU LOVE HER, DO YOU WANT TO BE A DADDY FOREVER, CAN YOU LIVE WITH HER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE,

Answer 8

sex should be because you love each other not planned. If you are ready don't forget once you do there could be consciences of long term if your not careful. Children are a full time commitment and when you have sex just make sure you are prepared either way.
Good Luck

Answer 9

The fact that you even posted this question makes me think you are having second thoughts. Maybe you really aren't ready for this. Do what you know is right. True love waits.

Answer 10

first of all how old are u to be asking such a question? If u are going ask will be ok to have sex with my girlfriend, then sounds like you arent ready. but if u are going to any way then use protection.