here's the deal, my boyfriend has this female friend with whom I constantly get jealous. You see she says he is her soul mate, in a moment they both said it until i told him it bothered me. The thing is he keeps saying i have nothing to worry about but last monday he went with his friends to this restaurant to watch a game. I remember he didnt call me or invite me or anything...i found out he had gone there until he got back. Now my brother told me someone saw him with his hand on this girls leg during the game. So i feel terrible cause i dunno if this is gonna get any further, and it is kinda confirming that he feels something for her....what do you think?
2006-06-21 07:16:57 · 20 answers · asked by allie_p15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm, i would have my suspicions...........
they said they are soulmates? he had his hand on her leg? he didn't tell you where he was going, and more importantly, he didnt ask you to go? i have one more question to add to this......................WHY????????
you should be asking yourself this, although the answer is pretty obvious. HE IS HIDING SOMETHING!!!!!
you have 2 options here......
1) talk to him and let him explain and believe his explanation
2) talk to him and let him explain, but remember he lied before (about the game) and chances are he will be lying again and DUMP HIM!!!!!
i would choose the latter. i think you have been taken for granted for long enough and now is the time to stand up for yourself. let him go and if he comes crawling back, he loves you, if he doesn't he is with her! think this may be the only way to prove if he is for real with you or not.
good luck!
2006-06-21 07:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all i have to say is that when i met my boyfriend of right now he had a girlfriend at the time and we were just best friends but we always knew we were meant for each other. And after he went through 4 g/f we finally ended up together now. so i think you should be worried. i don't know if their is much u can do b/c u don't want to become the annoying girlfriend. but if i were you i would have a serious talk with him. :/
2006-06-21 14:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by devyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your BF, not your husband!!! If you don't trust him then leave. Why would you even be with anyone that you don't trust? What's the point of that!? You BF is a dick for keeping that girl around and if you really don't like it then tell him to ditch her. If he doesn't want too then you know where his loyalty is and you can decide if you want to walk out the door or be the doormat......
2006-06-21 14:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by BrownTown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him then listen to your gut. If it tells you to leave then leave. But if you decide to work it out then work it out. But beware and understand that if you do give him the bennefit of the doubt there is a chance that he will keep going out with this friend. Anymore suspicions then I say let it go.
2006-06-21 14:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by hlfpntoct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should ask him upfront and say do u have feeling 4 her if not. yes i do think he is hitting on the other girl. hope it works out!!! no i dont think ur overreacting u have a right 2 be mad or jealous
2006-06-21 14:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah he has feelings for her let him go women deserve better than that girl. Leave him alone he's trying to play mind games and he's a whore just like the rest of them. Leave him alone dont let him play u like a fool
2006-06-21 14:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by glamorous 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't accept it at the datting stage. If it was happening to me I'd say, 'you want me girl? Then drop all of the others'. And she'd have to try triple hard. If she even slipped a little then it would be bye bye girl.
2006-06-21 14:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by smile4763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating on you. you need to break up with him before this goes any further. the longer you let this go the longer it will take to get over him. so do it now before you get pregnant or so involved that your skared for life. you don't want to to be damaged goods later on when the real man of your dreams comes along.
2006-06-21 14:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by jazzmen4u28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already have the answer to your own question. Without trust, the relationship will never make it, and you already don't trust him. Pull back now, b4 he has an oppurtunity to hurt you
2006-06-21 14:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by lmkpink911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have every right to be mad...you should let him know that that bothers you and if he doesnt stop you might need to give him the boot
2006-06-21 14:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋