I recently moved back to a place i lived before and got chatting to this bloke. we got on really well, and met up in the bar every week!! hhe then told me he had a girlfriend who has been away abroad for seven months but he has never heard from her. Anyway i ended up sleeping with him the other week, felt really bad the day after!! he said he really likes me too!! Now she has come home and it looks like they are getting back together, some people know and i'm scared she may find out. I don't like upsetting people, plus i'm only starting to make friends and don't want to be branded a tart!! I have also become close with his sister and she does not know about it
2006-06-21 07:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by joe_babydoll2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you slept with him it genuinely looked like she was not interested anymore. You were not being a tart you thought this was going to develop into something more. I would just put it down to experience and forget about it now. Take care x
2006-06-21 07:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You fell for the line im afraid - he knew what he was doing! I have male friends that do this & i cant believe girls still fall for that routine! You made a mistake you will learn from it & stop sleeping with blokes that you dont know that well that way you cant be branded a tart!
I think you may be best telling his sister what he said and what happened that way she knows & wont be annoyed when she hears through the grapevine
2006-06-21 08:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mel.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this girls sister what happened and leave her tell the girlfriend. If you dont clear your name first, he'll make you out to be the one in the wrong. Having said that Id kinda fib and say that you didnt know he had a girlfriend in the first place! Word travels to quickly about this kinda thing and you WILL be branded a tart. However if you admit your wrongdoing, she'll favour you and he'll probably get dumped - which is what he deserves. As for any hopes you have of getting with him - if he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you. Forget about him and go on the pull with his ex when she finds out!!!!
2006-06-28 00:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's nothing but a loser , i mean if he really loves his gf at first place he wouldn't be cheating on her . And now he says he likes you , how possibly this can be true ? he is the sort of guys who doesn't know what he wants and let me tell u if he left u then he's exactly the kind of guys you should avoid , you have nothing to worry about ... coz it's ok to make mistakes , i mean we are humans and life is nothing but some risks .. it's ok to lose some friends , u r gonna meet cooler people , i'm sure . just have a purpose , be motivated and wait for the right guy and everything is gonna be just perfect ... trust urself and don't be afraid of facing anyone ..
2006-06-21 07:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, well, i dont really know what you can do, or what you want to do. are you considering telling his sister? i reckon all you can do is wait and see what happens. how many people know you slept with him? as in, is there anyway if not from you or him that his girlfriend will find out? if you are close with his sister and you know she wont get mad then maybe tell her to rest your mind a little. these kind of situations happen, maybe for the wrong reasons, but they cant be helped. i think maybe you should talk to a friend of yours to get things out in order to feel better, talking always helps. but choose that person carefully i reckon.
2006-06-21 07:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his loss,try to forget it happened has he sure will not want his GF to find out.So relax & find a decent guy
2006-06-27 23:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it down to experiance and move on,no good dwelling on it.at least you,ll be more careful next time before you drop em.
2006-06-28 03:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by irlamboyo1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋