i am 13! i really need help
2006-06-21 07:05:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't mean to seem unfeeling, but was that before or after her accident with the 12-wheeler? If your most recent question is true, I offer you my condolences. But if you're just jerking people around, shame on you.
2006-06-21 08:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Muddy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, this really has to be difficult on your mother. She probably expected that you would come to her and talk to her when you decided you were ready for sex so she could help you get on birth control. You really should have a test for STDs done and get on birth control immediately if you are deciding that you are ready, which obviously you already made that choice. I can't sit here and preach to you about how you are too young, which i feel that you are, because you have already made this choice but i can tell you that your mother just wants the best for you. Sit down and talk to her, i know it can be embarrassing but it will resolve many issues. If you need some advice on how to start out the conversation or what points to make clear, feel free to contact me through my yahoo!email. Good luck and remember, your mother loves you, she will be there for you, she is just in shock right now
2006-06-21 07:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by pdanielleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you ARE too young to be having sex! But, now that you have, and in your mother's house when she trusted you......shamey on you!!!! First, you need to apologize to your mother. Tell her that you were wrong and that you are sorry you broke her trust. She is crying for two reasons....first of all, because SHE let you be alone with a boy under her roof, which was her own mistake. Secondly, because you broke her trust, and she feels bad, that at age 13, you really and truly don't realize what you have done. You think you gave a boy what he wanted, and that you did what grown ups do (and you felt oh, so grown up, huh?), BUT yet, no one realizes at age 13 what they are doing to themselves, their reputation, the dangers involved, and the consequences of pregnancy, disease, bad reputation, and probably not even having an orgasm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU need to go talk to your mom. If you think you were old enough to have sex, then quit stalling and worrying and march yourself in there to talk to her.
2006-06-21 07:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing at 13 having sex, girl?! I think the best you can do is prove to your mom that you will do better and be a good girl. Also, check for STDS and a pregnancy test cause condoms do break. Wow, what a shocker it must have been for your mom. This should serve as an experience. Good luck :)!
2006-06-21 07:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should send you to a convent! You are way too young to be having sex anywhere, especially in your room in your mother's home! You need to beg for her forgiveness and hope she doesn't cast you into the deep! Things between you two will never be the same. Not much you can do, the trust has been broken and you have totally disrespected her and yourself!
2006-06-21 07:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young for sex. There is no birth control that is 100% anywhere on earth. If youa re not ready to care for a child on this earth and give that child the love and time and heart it takes to bring him/her up happy and healthy, then you should not engage in sex. She is crying that you gave up your virginity as a child. Oh and I was your dad and caught you two, I would beat that boy's a** so hard, I'd gladly go to jail for it. You wouldn't be having sex with that turd again...no one would when I was done with his kiddy parts.
2006-06-21 07:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. stop having sex. If she's crying over it, there's a reason. You're much too young and if you get pregnant you are not going to be prepared for it. B. if you don't stop then at least stop doing it in your house or anywhere else where you can get caught. C. think what you're doing to your mom, and put yourself in her shoes. Doesn't seem like too much fun, does it?
2006-06-21 07:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by KVC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out of the house, get a job and you can have all the sex u'll ever want. you see, when i become a father im gonna be a cool father. my teen daughters can have sex anytime they want provided that they move out of the house early and feed themselves lol. but if they engage in any hanky panky while they're staying with me while i feed them, cloth them and shelter them, im gonna b3tchslap them so hard they'll land on the porch lol. so if u wanna stay with mom and dad, no sex for the meantime ok? thats the least u can do to the people who feed u cloth u and shelter u. they deserve that much respect ans this goes to all u b3tchy daughters out there hehe
2006-06-21 07:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have really hurt your mother, you are not ready for sex and she knows it. Thats why all the tears. You are not ready for being a parent, to deal with disease, and deal with other ramifications that might come from having sex. You cant do anything now exept tell her, promise her that you wont do it again for a long time. Then dont do it! You are too young!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-21 07:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need help and a spanking. Your toooo young for sex AND I'm guessing you did this in your home?? You silly child. Your doing grownup things and you really need to chill out and be a kid as long as you can because when a childhood is over ....its OVER!
2006-06-21 07:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋