My boyfriend and I dated for about 2 months... we went to a movie or the park every week and shared our feelings openly. All of a sudden he broke up with me and blamed it on one of my friends saying that she was spreading rumors about me and him... I told him to ignore these stupid rumors and we could have eachother to make it through. He still insisted that we'd be better just as "friends". He still sat with me at lunch a few days.. but only acted as my friend. Then I told him this "I can't take this any longer, I don't want to be your friend. You let me go and it hurt me.. it broke my heart. I can't stand the sight of you. Please don't hang out with me any more unless you are planning on taking me back as a girlfriend." After I said that he walked away and gave me a look of disgust. I was even more hurt. 4 months later and I still feel the pain just as much. He's going to a different highschool than me.. but I still love him. What should I do?
I'm 14
2006-06-21 07:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because I'm 14 doesn't mean I can't be inlove... this was real love I had for him... and he had if for me too!
2006-06-21 07:06:23 · update #1
i totally understand but let me tell u i'm 16 , and i had the same problem with my exboyfriend but he deffended me and preferred to stand by my side and ignored all those stupid rumors so let me tell u that this is not the reason of breaking up with u there should be something else . however , u should move on , don't let a guy destroy your self esteem coz it seems that this kind of guys would let u go when u faced the 1st trouble as a couple so how is it possibly to depend on him later . besides , u still have a longgg time to choose and pick till u find the perfect soul mate who would do anything just to make u happy , get over him , it's a matter of time ,that's all ...
2006-06-21 07:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
BorderlinePD is a few thing i'm dealing with too. I under no circumstances concept how i replace into behaving must be indications of a affliction. I wager you're no longer extra puzzled than your borderline ex. She probable likes you, needs she ought to maintain a relationship going, yet for her very own reason (perchance she replace into victimized as a baby, who's primary with of) does not wobbly vanity, does not think of she merits happiness in her life, and has deeply routed fears of intimacy. i'm afraid her calling you isn't so user-friendly as her being bored. that must be too wide-spread.
2016-10-31 06:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 14 too. I broke up wit my ex a month ago cause of crazy reasons too and i still love him and care about him. My yahoo Sn in Candymm06@yahoo.com Please Email Me If U Wanna Talk It would be nice to talk to someone>!
2006-06-21 07:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to let go of the one you love. its going to take lots of time to heal. im still in love with my first love and we broke up over a year ago and im 16. so i know how you feel.
2006-06-21 07:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by volleyball*star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals, just wait
2006-06-21 07:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by RICARDO M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋