My boyfriend Is moving and we want to stay together. He thinks that I am going to leave him for someone new. I am not i told him that. But the way he talks with other girls makes me think that he is going to leave me. What do I do? What am I Supposed to do?
2006-06-21 06:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bf is moving away too, he doesn't want us to break up, but he doesn't talk to other girls to get me jealous. I don't know what to do about that, but reassure him that you won't leave him.
2006-06-21 06:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I've been in the same situation and still am! I moved almost a year ago but I had been with my boyfriend for 8 months at that time. We both talked it over and agreed that we wanted to try and make it work, and no we're still going strong! We've been together now for a year and 7 months. It really has to be up to the both of you. If you want to continue seeing each other, than do so. If the chance comes along that you find someone better where you'll be moving, than you can break it off and try dating people in your range. Remember though: The greater the distance, the greater the trust has to be. I'm not going to lie, it's not always easy, but if you love each other you can make it work.
2016-05-20 09:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything. It is very hard, but not impossible, to make a long distance relationship work. If it is meant to be it will, if not you will both move on and find someone new.
2006-06-21 06:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzyfatrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i would never leave you! And i was only kidding when i said i thought you were going to do it. I love you! I cant believe you think that i'd leave you for someone else.
2006-06-21 08:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grl leave the man long distance relationships don't ever work out
2006-06-21 08:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him one on one and tell him about how much you love him. And also give him a reason to make him stay with you. P.S. Tell him to stop hangin around those girls.
2006-06-21 06:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u both r old enough to take care of yourselves..stay together.. a live in relationship!!
2006-06-21 06:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Srk adc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHEN A GUY BLAMES YOU OF SOMETHING THAT YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT DOING, GOOD CHANCES ARE THAT HE'S GOING TO DO WHAT HE BLAMES YOU OFF.
IT ALSO DEPENDS ON HOW FAR HIS MOVING, LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DON'T WORK, DON'T BEAT YOUR SELF ABOUT IT, TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING ESPECIALLY IF YOU WANT TO WORK THINGS OUT WITH HIM.
GOOD LUCK !
2006-06-21 07:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's already left. He's imagining all the new girls he'll meet and probably doesn't want to feel obligated to you.
2006-06-21 06:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋