I know the first reaction to this question is to automatically say "What an idiot, of course we (women) appreciate honesty". However, listen to the twist on this question... I want to know if you can appreciate being made out to be "More special" than perhaps you are in guys eyes. This is directly in relationship to the PLAYERS of the world. Taking from personal experience, I could be construed as a player except for the fact that I am upfront about my intentions. In some instances in the past, I had been known to stretch the truth about my intentions to get what I wanted out of a girl. Being that I have a conscious, I felt guilty for doing so and since have reverted to blatent honesty. More along the lines of "well, I personally can't see a reason we shouldn't just have a night of fun and call it for what it's worth... Can you?"
So, what are the thoughts, should I be upfront about it and continue the way I'm going. I really don't want a relationship, but appreciate the company.
2006-06-21 06:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with TB. just say you want sex up front and be done with all the little detals! saves time for you and you both come out winners, cause she is gonna dump your a**
2006-06-22 03:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes you need to be up front and tell them you are only in it for the sex. Because theres nothing worse than to start caring about someone and then you tell them that you are not ready for a relationship. Tell the truth and don't hurt anyone its no fun its terrible if you have never been hurt then you wouldn't understand its a hurt that takes a long time to get over. So I say yes tell the truth up front and be honest about what you want and you won't have to feel guilty and she won't get hurt.
2006-06-21 06:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by T B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should continue to be up front that way you don't have to worry about any ones feelings getting hurt or give any false impressions. You also help your self out- instead of trying to plot and scheme you can keep a clear mind and not have to worry about being deceptive. It's best for you and any potential mate.
2006-06-21 06:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by ICUD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are also women out there who just want to have fun ya know. You aren't alone. Not only that, if you are up front, you are less likely to hurt someone later and as a female, I commend you for that. Yes, we do appreciate honesty with regards to this situation.
2006-06-21 06:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly there is not correct answer there, there is going to be times when honestly is going to be best, but if your honest you might not get what you want. . . so the question is do you want to continue with whats working or do you want to be morally right. I would vote for morals, cause in the long run thats whats going to make you feel better.
2006-06-21 06:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should continue to be up front and honest about what you want. i guess between the two at least your not liying to them or leading them on, but woemen are more than just pieces of ***, they do have feeling. also i do agree that you should let them know what their getting into.
2006-06-21 06:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋