I'm not so sure that my boyfriend really want me for me. I feel as though he just wants my body and does not care for me as a person. He wants to have sex and I don't think i can handel all that, school and the million things that go on in my daily life. I also don't want to end up like most of my friends. I have goals and moral and top of my list is my EDUCATION! Does he want me or my body, and do guys really find that giving oral to be exciting.
2006-06-21 06:00:38 · 14 answers · asked by I. E. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dear friend,
its my all effort to make u understand wts reality and hope u dont mind if i tell u the fact which may be bitter..... and is
see at this age it is possible to face such situation. but a girl like u more interested in education, pl continue in education and concentrate on studies.
and if u have that dought that the boy is behind u for sex ask him straight away na. if he says yes then its upto u to have a relation with him as ur boy freind or have a pleasure of sex wtih him or to avoid him from coming to u or u meeting him.
see i request u not to indulge in sex with a unknown or a boyfriend
at this age i am sure it is well araised from inside nowingly or unnowingly u will indulge in sex pl be aware and if he is forcing u to give the pleasure of oral sex or sucking then sure he needs u to sexual satisfaction and he needs ur body to reduce his body heat.
yes dear, boys do enjoy and thus it is exciting to have oral sex for boys.....
pl dont get involved in sex at this age pl concentrate on studies.
2006-06-21 06:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by shuja 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think you really should wait until you're ready who cares what he thinks. If he can't wait until you are ready to make love then you're much better off without him. Your body is sacred and being a virgin is something you should be proud of who cares if people tease and taunt you because of it. There are too many diseases in the world today to just go out having sex with anyone you find "attractive". And for the other question I absolutely love to give oral to a female whether I get it or not after all they say it's better to give than to receive.
2006-06-21 06:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to pressure you into anything that you do not want, if he does he can end up in jail on the rape charges... reason being you're still in high-school and probably under 18. First of all, he has to respect you as a person and not someone to do it with when HE wants to. And second of all, you have to choose for yourself what YOU want in life without him constantly reminding you about this.
Your body, your choice (so to speak)... Go with your instinct and don't let him force you into something you might regret later on in life. It's an important decision and YOU are the one who has to decide for yourself when, where, how, why, and with whom. If he trully does care for you, then he'll wait for you. If he doesn't, he'll leave, that way letting you find the one who's right for you. Do what YOU think and believe is right, and you'll see the answer(s) before you :)
Best of luck and take care :)
P.S.: It IS worth the wait for that special someone who'll be with you for the rest of your life :)
2006-06-21 06:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is cut his thing off ! JK anyway don't have sex until u are ready. Trust me I'm 22 and high school boys just wanna have sex they don't care about you let alone making sure the sex for you will be any good. And I'm sure u don't want your first time to suck.. If you have doubts then your obviously not ready. If you ever do feel ready make sure its with a person who will respect you enough to make sure your comfortable and also enjoying yourself i mean come on if it sucks whats the point right??? And on the oral sex thing use condoms and don't go down if he isn't willing to go down too!
2006-06-21 06:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex. It sounds like you've already made up your mind on the right choice. Don't put out. It's disrespectful to you for him to ask. Your education should come before his hormones. Tell him you don't want to and keep putting him off of the idea if he brings it up. Eventually, you'll find out if he likes you for you or just your body. Stay strong and don't let him argue you into it. It'd be a very bad decision to let him do so.
2006-06-21 06:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Teen Christian Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is anywhere from 15-26yrs old he's just looking to get some. If you are good looking you are going to get the same kind of guys time and time again but don't give it up just because you think you'll be closer to him or something stupid like that. Stick to what you are comfortable with and if he doesn't like it then he isn't the right person for you.
2006-06-21 06:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it; it's that simple. Chances are you will end up getting pregnant and then your whole life is going to be messed up. You're too young to have sex anyway, and if this guy wants you for your body he definitely does not love you. If you get pregnant, would he have the guts to say 'that's my kid?' No, he wouldn't, he'd just probably leave you and move on to another girl.
2006-06-21 06:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truelly loves you he will wait if not then let him go there is some one out there that thinks you are worth waiting for and will wait. Also if you have waited this long you must have a good reason like school, carrer, marriage all of these are very good reason but what ever yours is its yours and he should wait, if not drop him like a bad habit.
2006-06-21 06:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u truly feel that way dont have sex because u knw u dont want to do so dnt let him get u to say yes. and if he keeps on buging u get rid of him ull find someone better he is not the only guy in this world.
good luck.
2006-06-21 06:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by jesses love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready for sex dont let anyone pressure you to do anything you dont wanna do. Ask yourself if you really want to be with the guy and if he really wants to be with you? If he respects or really cares about you then he will accept your decision.
2006-06-21 06:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋