my boyfriend says he loves me very much, and i do feel that but he says hes stressed at work and he wants to come home some days and just be by himself or be with his brothers and relax. i dont know what to feel about this?
2006-06-21 05:42:22 · 5 answers · asked by sharimonk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need time for yourself. This is very normal. Many people, when they get into a relationship they think they have got to be with that person all the time, and they have to change everything that the other person does not like. But what you need to do, is keep time for yourself and your friends. So you can be yourself. You are not always going to like or want to do the same thing all the time, so go out with friends and hang out and have fun without him, so when you are together you are not wanting to go do something else. Plus, absence makes the heart go fonder. Now, if he is not wanting to spend anytime with you, then there is a problem.
2006-06-21 05:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, but he should at least pick up the phone and talk to you on the days that he isn't seeing you. But it's not normal if he has absolutely no contact with you
2006-06-21 12:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by ICUD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
I'm married but I need time away from my wife and kids to enjoy some solitude or shopping. It isn't that I don't like time with either (I love playing with my kids!) but there are times peace is required.
2006-06-21 12:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that sometimes men and women need time to themselves. Don't you ever want to be alone?
2006-06-21 12:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that its not you but somethimes they just wanna be left alone for a while!!! thats what i think!!
2006-06-21 12:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by babygrl_42006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋