I've been in an "off & on" relationship for about 6 months. I keep telling him it isn't working out, because we have problems with communication, but he says he loves me and is scared of losing me. I still have feelings for him. We've tried making things work but there hasn't been much change. Do I try one last time or just call it quits and keep it that way?
2006-06-21 05:27:52 · 13 answers · asked by KVC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing for you is to stick to what you say you will do. That is, if you finish with him, you must finish. No going back or he still has you but gets to keep you at arms length. Tell him you want 100% or 0% and stick to it. If he begs after you tell him its over,and you want him back, you would want to see a VERY big change in him. He needs to back up his words with action. Be strong and stick to your guns. Good luck!
2006-06-21 05:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by baroness 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you have tried before and it didnt work, then call it quits. Cause a good relationship is practically based upon good communications. If there is none, then there is no relationship.
And if he really did love you, he would have tried even harder to communicate with you more.
2006-06-21 12:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feeling for him still you should sit down with him and have a LONG talk, figure out ways of working on your communication. If that doesn't work then hit the road...
2006-06-21 12:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you if you stick with yr relationship yr the one with the feelings that things arnt great. yes he will feel bad for a while but time does heal. dont feel guilty if you do decide. better to let someone go now before you live in a lie.
2006-06-21 12:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO VAGUE. NEED MORE DETAILS. why has it been off and on for 6 months? are u off or on right now? what are u unable to communicate? HOW THE HELL CAN I ANSWER THIS WITH SO LITTLE INFO??
2006-06-21 12:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him love is not enough,communication is just as important.
2006-06-21 12:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by william5109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits unless you want to try again which becomes again and again. If your fed up then break it off
2006-06-21 12:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk 2 him, tell him y u feel it isn't working, tell him what's on your mind, if he really loves u he'll do whatever 2 b with u, goodluck.
2006-06-21 12:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits
2006-06-21 12:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to couple counseling - it works wonders for a relationship
2006-06-21 12:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋