Should I tell him or what?
2006-06-21 05:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he isnt tryingtobe a jerkand doesnt really he´s acting like that maybe sometimes he wonders if u reallylove him or if u want him back because even thought u said u would trust him u still act in something like before,he loves u alot and like he said on one of his new songs, how can i hurt when im holding on to your heart.
2006-06-23 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mario And Airwaves 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"The jerk vibe" is natural with us guys all the time. (There are rare exceptions) It's a mentality of wanting to be in control and have the fun we want to have first, before all others. You can either let every moment pass by with passive aggressiveness, or deal with every instance with self confidence, sternness, and sensitivity. Emphasis on self confidence. Your wants and needs are equally important. If he doesn't respond to your concerns about things that matter to you, (and visa versa) then you should find someone else. With all that said, you must communicate and build bridges together.
2006-06-21 12:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Michael E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerk Vibe? I think you should have noticed that before becoming his girlfriend. But yes, I would tell him if I were you because you wouldn't want to constantly notice that about him right?
2006-06-21 12:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by SuzzyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice about it, sometimes when a guy is distracted (especially say on the phone or by other thoughts) he may come off as cold and distant. I think a "hey where were you just now" may help.
don't go "You are being a jerk to me" but you can say "honey it feels like you aren't really listening to me or like you don't really care about what I'm saying, is something wrong?"
2006-06-21 12:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10 there may be something else effecting him. Definately ask what's wrong but make sure to seem compassionate.
Always communicate!
Hope this helps
Matt
2006-06-21 12:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by MastaP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definately. i had that problem too and i just told him straight up that what he said made him seem like a major dick. i had to say stuff like that to him a couple of times but it eventually stopped.
2006-06-21 12:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by TonzOfLove4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to be honest than hold things yr uncomfortable with.
2006-06-21 12:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and see what's is his reactions and you must tell him to change his attitudes
2006-06-21 12:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by frankenchokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he probably is .
don;y tell him, it might hurt his feelings.
leave him instead,that will only break his heart....
2006-06-21 12:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-21 12:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by my_sweet_love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋