We still love each other very much but there is some strange tension when we talk on the phone. We are also both optimistic in getting back together, but neither of us knows when...What should I do?
2006-06-21 04:38:59 · 25 answers · asked by Randi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello..I've been in such position..Be active,speak openly and straightforward about everything..Go ahead boldly..Love is above all and if you both are still in love..everything is repairable..Good luck!!
2006-06-21 04:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by sunflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not put your age so it is a difficult one to answer. I will assume you are in your 20's if so I suggest you stop talking on the phone for awhile and move on. I am not saying forget them but you will be surprised how much the seperation will do one of two things you will either find the other person was not the one and the stress free life you now lead is better or you will both find that you make a better "us" then you realized and that you can work through anything as long as you do it together. My daughter had the same problem, she took my suggestion and stepped away for a few months after dating the same guy for 3 years she came to the conclusion that she would rather have moments of stress with him than a life time without him. Good luck....
2006-06-21 11:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling and it seems that there is still some issues with the reason why you 2 broke up. If you 2 are still having strange tensions when you talk to each other, then i advise you not to get back together. Just go your way.
2006-06-21 11:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date a little bit and if you really have feelings for each other you will come back to each other. If you never want to be with them again and you want to move on then think of the thing they do that you despise the most and magnify it in your mind. You should get over them then. If you can't think of anything that bothers you about them then maybe you should try to get back together.
2006-06-21 11:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by bjdmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time apart, reconnect with your buddies, go out and do something alone and meet new people. Anything to keep from agonizing over it in your head. My man and I broke up for six months and ended up getting back together, it was the best thing that ever happened to our relationship.
2006-06-21 11:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dwell on the fact that you guys are broken up. If there is a chance of you two getting back together, let it happen naturally- don't try to force it. It'll make things even more awkward. In the mean time go out and enjoy yourself. Doesn't mean you have to go out and hook up.
2006-06-21 11:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got of a relationship and I am going thru the same thing because we still talk to one another and I just plain out told him that we shouldn't talk everyday cause it makes it harder to get over you. Also keeping yourself busy helps out alot. Slowly but surely those feeling will fade away.
2006-06-21 11:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by geminigurl2404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the principles of Buddhism, realise that life is suffering and that desire is the cause of all suffering, learn the path, clear your mind, find nirvana, master dharma, harness the chi..... Then go out and find yourself an upgrade, and realize that your ex's attractiveness was nothing more than an illusion.
2006-06-21 11:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by splifee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put my lunch down to answer this one. Date someone new, date someone new, date someone new! It doesn't matter who it is, it will help. You need to feel desirable after a break up and anyone can give that to you. After you feel a little better then be more selective of who you date!
2006-06-21 11:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would set each other free. if it was meant to be then you will find each other when you are both ready. until then go out and have some fun summer is here and there are allot of single Peale.
2006-06-21 11:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋