ok i really like this boy and im like very shy to ask him if he fills the same can you plz help me
2006-06-21 04:37:35 · 20 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when u see him just start to talk about what he like's and then fine out what kind of movies that he like's thant just say to him if he is not busy suggest to him to go to the movies. or consider trying a note or a phone call. good luck.
2006-06-21 04:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by jan jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Go and ask him if he feels the same. If he does not, then yes you have to deal with the rejection. However, if you do this sooner than later you will know upfront how he feels. What if you do not ask and sit around for the next few months developing more feelings and attachments to some guy who may in the end may not like you. That would suck! There is freedom in knowing if he likes you or not. If not, then move on as he is clearly not the one for you.
I see that there are some people telling you to do this online. I would not reccomend that as this will not let you grow out of your shyness nor as a person. Please do it face to face, there is nothing wrong with the personal touch.
Also, know that if he does reject you that most likely it is him and not you. Remind yourself that you are a great person and deserving of the best when it comes to everything, even boys!
2006-06-21 11:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a couple things you can do. One is you can send a note to him. Two you could request a song on the radio and ask him. Three send a letter in the mail the old fashion way or four you get one of your girlfriends to go up and and start talking to him and causual mention your name and see if he likes you.
2006-06-21 11:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just take it slow! Talk to him, ask him over as friends try to do things together. Just try to be friends with him first and if he does like you more than a friend it will come out. It will also be good for you. After you get to know him better you may decide you don';t want him as your boyfriend but just a friend. Good Luck!
2006-06-21 11:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehhh. then try to get him to ask you. just hang around him and he'll catch on - you dont have to say anything if youre shy - just look at him in special ways and flirt - he'll get the hint =)
2006-06-21 11:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you both have a pc. if so you can over come this shyness by developing over the net first. you might find some helpful tips here>>
2006-06-21 11:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness & love never go together.
Tell him in straight words, without hesitation, that you love him.
You will get the answer immediately.
2006-06-21 11:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to be honest and just say hey i like you or ya wanna hang out hell get the clue
2006-06-21 11:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are to shy maybe you ant ready mature than try to talk with your mouth very slow
2006-06-21 11:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to go about it. is show him with your actions us males pay attention to females body language. just don't put yourself out there cause then he'll think your easy
2006-06-21 11:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by K-Def 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋