2006-06-21 04:33:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not true. Nice guys may get over looked occasionally by girls or get taken advantage of by some people but ultimately they win because they do the right thing and stick to being who they are. Especially as people get older they see the value in the nice guy.
2006-06-21 04:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No, for some reason younger girls up until around the 20's like the bad boy image which is not good for the good guy. Which makes him "finish last". However at a certain time i think many females want to find a nice guy who she can settle down with, which is when the nice guy wins. However depending on when the guy is looking for girl is if he finishes last or not.
2006-06-21 04:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Greg P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that says no is lying. However all the friends I have that are female would say no. But I am around large groups of females constantly and to a tee they date guys who have money,looks, or material things, but are abusive, controlling, or just plain a-holes. It is rare to find a girl who dates a nice guy. I know I am one. At least I end up a friend with benefits because they can't stand their boyfriends. Plus bad boys are usually insecure so they are easy to control to a point. Most nice guys are independent which for some is hard to take because they overlook the loyalty of the nice guy because of insecurities from past relations. So in short yes.
2006-06-21 05:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last in the short-term... But in the end it all works out for the nice guy
2006-06-21 04:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by TrippleThreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before recently I would have said yes. But I have found that being the nice guy is like racing as the turtle. You loose at first, but the big win is down the road. When I met her, I knew it was worth all the past disapointments. So no, we do not finish last.
2006-06-21 04:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by mkostelnik@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a nice guy and if I finish last that's OK because I am in no hurry to finish I wish this would last forever
2006-06-21 04:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for the most part.
Women tend to date only nice guys after their finished dating bad boys. They want a good responsible man to settle down with.
So if you're a "nice guy", sorry... you'll have to wait to your day comes.
Women love using and stepping on nice guys. Why, because you'll always be there for them. That's why, you're a "nice guy".
2006-06-21 04:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by John C.N. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some things. But that really depends on what you classify as "first."
"So shall the last be first, and the first last. For many are called, but few are chosen."
Matthew 20:16
"But the meek shall inherit the earth, and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace."
Psalms 37:11
2006-06-21 11:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reason why they finish last is because they have a better chance of a longer and more stable relationship than bad guys.
2006-06-21 04:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. If u never want to step on anyone's toes or hurt feelings, people will walk all over u for the most part. Gotta find the middle road. Push for what u want without intentional harm.
2006-06-21 04:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by stillatello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋