ok, ive been dating my bf of 5 months and ive become friendly with a lot of his friends. I only really hang out with 2 of his female friends without him once in a while. When it comes to his male friends, ive NEVER hung out with them without my bf. Ive noticed the past few weeks my bf has not invited me to go out with him with his friends. Just a few days ago, he said he wanted me to make new friends because he is getting "wierded out" that i made friends through him.....so guys.....opinions please. I honestly don't see the big deal that i became friendly with some of his friends, but if it bothers him, i will try to meet other people that is not through him. we are both 24
2006-06-21 04:16:01 · 2 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, he's a guy. He's not "weirded out"; he just wants his own friends with whom he can hang out without worrying about you. When a g/f comes along to hang out with the guy, a guy inevitably feels the need to make special note of what the g/f wants or needs to do and just doesn't have the fun he wants to have with his friends. Don't worry, the "weirded out" phase will go away and he will be more willing and wanting to have you along once he is more comfortable around you. Let him have space every now and then so that he can feel free of the stress related to relationships, but don't forget that he also need to help you get through the stress. I'm not advocating that you do all the work while he gets whatever he wants. If he fights you about sitting and listening to your problems or complaints, tell him to "shape up or ship out". Then explain that you just need him to listen, not help! That little sentence is very important when communicating to a guy.
By the way, if you were wondering, I'm a guy.
2006-06-21 04:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by chemical_kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very immature. All the guys I've dated have always really liked that fact that I became friends with their friends because is easier that way. You know when everyone can hang out together. Most of them have actually said they know right off the bat if a relationship will evolve from dating purely based on weather or not a girl gets along with their friends. He sounds like he has a serious problem. Either that or he doesn't want you finding stuff out about him
2006-06-21 04:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by ??????????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋