2006-06-21 04:05:49 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself how you would feel if you were married and some girl came up to your husband with those sultry eyes and asked for a dinner and dancing date.. ? Seems pretty obvious from that perspectiv, doesn't it? If he was going to leave his wife (and kids?) do you think it would be for someone that would have a track record of this type.. With someon ethat breaks into relationships.. Do you think he could ever be able to fully trust that you wouldn't do this to him in the future?
What should you do? Be honorable, you should sneak into the bathroom and put your head under the faucet of cold water when you get the urge to talk to him in anything more than a business related way.. and he will respect you for it.
2006-06-21 04:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by lost_but_not_hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only asking for trouble. If he's sniffing around you enough to spark your interest he's not someone that's worth the time. If he comes on to you then report him to your supervisor. If that doesn't work or if he IS your sv. Go as high above him as you can. Any company that is worth working for will take you seriously!
Hang on there are others out there that will stick with you in every way!
Not to mention the potential Risks like STD's and Pregnancy. You play with him and get pregnant then you have more problems then just having an interest in him in the first place. Think about how your child would miss haveing a father in the picture!
2006-06-21 04:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another SINGLE man that you know can share his time, love etc. A married man is taken on paper, his wife and children will always come first. Where will he be at bed time, when the kids are having their school play, when the wife is hacving his baby, at birthdays, Xmas dinner? Think strongly about what it would be like to be the other woman, not fun at all. Then look at it this way, he would be an adulterer if he was to go out on his wife. God does not like nasty. What would you think if you were drawn into court over a nasty divorce as the other woman? Not fun.....I had it done to me he was a jerk.
2006-06-21 04:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Scarlett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to objective think that you don't want to break apart families and hurt him, his wife, his children and the future of them all. It will leave scars and sadness, hopelessness, distress, pain, sorrow for them. Unselfishly back away from what can turn to a disaster by controlling your feelings and your gestures and words. Ignor him if you have to. Quit your job if necessary.
You will find a man that will be loyal to you. and if you are in the wife's position, you will want your husband to be loyal as well. Respect that he is a married man.
2006-06-21 04:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by designer401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would steer clear of any physical involvement with him. Be friends with him. If it is too difficult for you to be friends without being flirtatious, then you need to just go separate ways.
If you did get involved with him, you will have a LOT of drama heading your way. Someone will find out.
What exactly are you hoping for? Are you hoping that he will leave his wife and be with you? If that's the case, let's say that it happens that way. He leaves his wife. He chooses you. How long before he leaves you and chooses someone else?
They never change their spots, dear. I speak from experience.
2006-06-21 04:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Krickett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness if this even actually a question... what kind of idiot even thinks about asking for permission to break up a marriage, because basically thats what you are doing!! you know its wrong and stupid but your hoping someone on here will give you and answer that will make you able to justify that you want to be a homewrecker!!! and then later when you get caught out you wont have to feel bad because you got justification before you did it... GROW UP!!
hes married, leave him alone!!
2006-06-21 04:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start making a list of all the things you don't like about him. If he's attractive and married, his wife is probably a catch too, or he's scuzzy because he's flirting with you instead of fixing his marriage. Well, there's your first two list items. Bottom, you can do better!
2006-06-21 04:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by edie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl leave him alone. Flirting and kidding around is OK but don't bust up his marriage. If you do it will happen to you in the future. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-06-21 04:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by bfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. You don't need to be messing around with a married man
2006-06-21 04:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. How would you feel if you were married and some other girl knew your husband and hit on him anyways and completely disregarded you, Not so nice huh!!
2006-06-21 04:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by lissa7903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋