i just saw my ex in the street, it's been almost a year since i split up with him - i split with him because he treated me like crap. he just gave me dirty looks and ignored me, why is he so immature after all this time?
2006-06-21 04:00:06 · 15 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Sun M - I'm not the immature one, he's 22 for God's sake, he should be able to civil by now. Oh and by the way, cheer up, all your answers sound like you're in a foul mood.
2006-06-21 04:11:10 · update #1
we dont hang round with same people. ive moved on, with someone new now.
2006-06-21 05:23:33 · update #2
sometimes people don't want to be friends after they split. As he treated you bad when you were together he's not going to be nice now. So well done you for being civil but don't expect anymore from this guy. turning the other cheek is also turning your face away. don't let him have any more control over you to even let you think about him. he's obviously got to feel like a victim to get through life and that's where he'll stay. doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.
2006-06-21 06:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you are the one that finished it.
He doesn't like the fact that you are the one who finished it, it hurts his ego and image of himself and that has turned to hate and dislike.
It's not you it's his way of dealing with the rejection, you cannot change the way he feels and acts towards you now, he hasn't got the logic or emotional maturity yet to realise that sometimes in life things do not work out how we would like, that may come in time.
Just use these nasty, immature actions to remind you how lucky you are to have got out when you did, I'd say you made a good choice
2006-06-21 04:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why he is still so immature. But it sounds like you did make the right decision. Stay away from him, and if you see him on the street, just smile at him and walk away. That will get his goat! :) Good Luck!
2006-06-21 04:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just like that. My ex husband is still immature after sixteen years. Don't worry about it,just be glad he is your EX.
2006-06-21 04:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u, i wouldnt even try to be civil to him, id just ignore him. he sounds like he is still pi$$ed off cos he didnt get the sweety he wanted. boys take longer to mature than girls and i swear some never grow up. just forget him and get on with your life and be happy. thats the most important thing.
2006-06-21 06:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to burst the bubble but All me are immature I'm 42 but still think I'm a teenager.
2006-06-21 23:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by andy f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're immature and he's in touch with his feelings. u don't mean nothing to him anymore, plus you hurt his feelings when you split up with him. what kind of candy dream world do you live in where he's going to forgive you? get a grip on reality, woman.
2006-06-21 04:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy still need to grow up just ignore him in future unfortnately some men never mature mentally
2006-06-21 04:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by dave g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have exes like that too. Just be grateful you got rid. His problem, not yours... and let yourself feel slightly smug that you obviously still get to him after all this time.. you must be really hot!
2006-06-21 04:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sun-m obviously is very immature and most men are no offence to the small handful out there that arnt.
2006-06-21 04:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋