I'm 20 and my sister is 19. Our parent has passed away long time ago and we're just living together in our small flat.
Anyway, I didn't yell or say any single word and I just shutted the door slowly... I realize at our age it's very normal for us to have such healthy sex drive (But that doesn't change the fact that I'm a bit worried and angry to see my sister doing "that" in our very own flat!)... I also have sex with my girlfriend and she knows that also... (We forgot to lock the door once while consummating our love once and she saw us... oh, my...)
Perhaps it's such a revenge...?
2006-06-21 03:52:10 · 12 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think it's revenge; she's just doing what comes naturally. She's an adult and can make choices about when, where and with whom she sleeps (or doesn't). Your choice to shut the door and give them some privacy was the correct one. The only thing you can really do is to tell her that you saw it happen, and as a roommate, you feel you should agree on certain privacy rules to prevent any embarassment in the future. Since, as you've said, you've also had sex with your girlfriend in the flat, you can't justifiably express any outrage that it happened on your sister's side, though you can say you're concerned and want to make sure she uses contraception, etc. because she's your kid sister and you want to be sure she's safe and happy.
2006-06-21 04:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by theyuks 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, this is sad. Did you talk at all afterwards?
How can you be so cold as to not really care if she is taking a pill or using condoms?!?
Today unprotected sex can be death if you aren't caredul.
Show what type of brother you are and TALK TO HER! She doesn't even have her parents to talk about sex to, and it seems you have not been there for her up to now. Make a difference, admit you've been a jerk, and afterwards sert up rules to let each other know how you are occupied, (towel on the door, a "special" light on elsewhere, shoes near the couch, anything, ok?).
2006-07-03 00:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by T_C_FLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both adults, young adults, and have so much to learn. You have not had parents to guide you and she may actually be looking for that type of love, and you also, but just looking in the wrong place. Try to talk and make a new rule to not have sex. True love in a marriage will include making love, not having sex. Any animal can have sex and they usually are doing it to make babies, not satisfy a lust. Try to be the leader and if she sees that you care so much she may follow your example!
2006-07-03 00:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, it's noral at your age. Maybe you two should come up with a way of letting each other know you're busy. Although, this might mean you'll know what she's doing and it might freak you out to know what's going on inside, atleast you won't have to witness it. Think college when you put a tien on the door knob.
2006-06-21 10:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Evelyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not revenge honey.. if is just your sister having sex.
I think the reason why it upsets you so much is because she is your "little" sister.
As long you are to are cohabitating well and have no other problems... talk to her, you all set some rules for the house... and just tell her you care about her and dont' want her to get hurt and to be careful.. I don't think she did it out of spite.. but if you are not forsure... ask her.
That is the only family you have... don't let young, ignornant, childish things.. keep you to two from loving and being there for each other.
2006-06-21 10:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both can put a sign-board infront of your room whenever you want to have sex saying," Look before you leap " or " Walk slowly ! Construction works ahead ....."
2006-06-21 11:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect? She probably felt the same way you do when she walked in on you and yours. Let it go, you're both adults. She's no different than any other roommate you may have in the future.
2006-06-21 11:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Scared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal ..both of you just need to be careful in the future ..try knocking first and waiting for a response.
2006-06-21 10:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you feel when she saw you? same feeling she might hv now.
How ever it's mentality of a man. Who can enjoy but can't see her sister. SEX is natural needs of mammals.
2006-06-21 11:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by chupke chupke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I saw my sister having sex, I'd burn my eyes out with glowing coals. Terrible.
2006-06-21 10:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Greg 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋