Should I marry a girl immediately after high school and then join the Army? She'll Receive benefits and stuff. I am not totally sure. Help!!!
Note: No law statin that i cannot marry then enlist into the Army.
2006-06-21 03:47:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you realize that marriage is supposed to last forever..?
2006-06-21 03:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by sunflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that would be much too young to marry, whether you're going into the service or not.
And right now with an ugly war going on, is no time to join the service. That would be like committing suicide. No benefit is worth that price.
2006-06-21 10:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is based on love, not benefits and should last forever. With the currently war situation, why would you place yourself in harms way? Also, why start off a marriage with the possibility of you being deployed and not seeing your new bride for several months? Just some questions for thought.
2006-06-21 11:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by chaaqarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so stupid...marry a girl go join the army , possiblity get killed, and leave your wife, possible kid with no husband or father, that is so selfish.. you are too young to get married..the army is a whole different world, they own you for whatever length of time you sign up for..most marriages in the service end up in divorces, because the wife cant understand you just cant jump home whenever they want you too....
2006-06-21 10:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by braider27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't marry for benefits. marriage is for love and love only. will you always love her and want just her? if not then you need to be honest with her and yourself. do the right thing and join the army if you want but do not mary that girl for money. money will not make you happy and that's all you need to be unhappy and fighting in the war plus with her. get help because that's not right
2006-06-21 10:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by lover143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No for God sakes. You will be traveling the world and rather your faithful or not she will have people in her ear saying your not. Then she will be in your bed with some one else.
Some of the answers above are so stupid. Remember if you join you are a Soldier first and a husband 2nd. Dont join for the wrong reason. Used your head.
2006-06-21 11:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by liberal hater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Anything that is done can be undone at a later date. Just be sure to get a prenup or the divorce could end up taking more than the benefits are worth.
2006-06-21 10:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can I f you are sure you want to spend an eternity together, BUT...
I don't recomend it! A Couple of my friends did this and after leaving and traveling the world and finding them Selves, They came back with a completely different perspective on life and both are divorced now. You may think you know what you want now, but She should be able to support herself until you return, She needs to be self Sufficiant too!
2006-06-21 10:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by meggyb44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a young man, in 5 years your outlook on the world will completely change. If your really sure you love her then by all means go head. You should probably sit down with your parents and have a long heart to heart.
2006-06-21 10:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. You need to wait. Marriage is a big decision that you just aren't ready to make yet. Trust me. I got married right out of high school and would not suggest it to anyone.
2006-06-21 10:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god well you obviously can do what you like but know its a HARD life and takes alot of adjustments and compromise you will not see each other much at all in the beginning basic is at least a month them ait...deployments can be 18 months or longer it can get lonely just be educated on the decision don't be fooled by any recruiter they will lie to get quota. any questions about military life feel free to email me.
2006-06-21 10:55:11 · answer #11 · answered by irunwithscissors25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋