I tend to become depressed on a regular basis. In fact, I can go from feeling like I am on top of the world to feeling useless within a matter of hours. I think serving others may help me with my depression, but I am concerned that these highs and lows may hinder my performance. Also, due to my current work schedule, I do not see my family as much as I would like. I am concerned that if I do commit myself to an additional 15-20 hours per week, I will become further depressed because I will not see my loved ones. I have a strong desire to help others, but I am not sure if I am emotionally and psychologically equipped to handle the job. What should I do?
2006-06-21 03:37:24 · 5 answers · asked by clahti1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should first be honest with your self. If you are questioning your ability to handle the mental and psychological strain on your person it would probably not be a good idea to take on such an endevor. Service to others is the most important parts of being a a good productive menber of society but you can do it in small ways everyday. A kind word a helping hand. I does not need to be the most dangerous thing you can think of. You will be fine make a list of what is important to you. Prioritize the list and start there. Keep your head up and remember "if you have never been in the darkest valleys you can not appreciate the highest peaks" Richard Nixon
2006-06-21 04:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by John B 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
okay sweetie let me tell you my fiance' is a firefighter. He loves it with all his heart. To be a volunteer firefighter you dont have to commit to it for 15-20 hrs. You just have to show up for runs. I don't know where you live. But we live in DE and even if you don't make the truck you still get credit for the run. The smile on his face and the reaction he gives after he's helped with a fire is unlike any other reaction he gives. Being a firefighter is a very demanding but very rewarding commitment you can make. Honestly as with your depression I think it might help you out and make you feel better about yourself. But seriously consider that most firemen are addicted to the firehouse (which I hate by the way) and that there will be times that you will want to leave your family to be at the firehouse. But good luck and God Speed!
2006-06-21 03:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Katie*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it if I were you.
Your depression, could in fact, hinder your performance. Also, the fact that you will be away from your family will make matters worse, in multiple ways.
Why not try to find volunteer opportunities in which you can get the whole family involved?
2006-06-21 03:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by OpnThFludG8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should go see your dr about your depression. he/she will put you on meds. after you have gotten that taken care of than talk to your family about be coming a fireman. good luck to ya
2006-06-21 03:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about health. e.g lose some weight. also if you worry too much don't do it
2006-06-21 03:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋