ive got a bf, but im attracted to another guy who i met a few weeks ago. we get on so well and i find myself fallin for him. what should i do????
2006-06-21 02:07:43 · 23 answers · asked by fluffybunni12o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3som
2006-06-21 02:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
story from the little box:-
It's meaningful....
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate?
Could you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answered)
Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up.
But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't
picked up any. Because you told me not to go back, so I didn't go
back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
compare and hope that there will be a better one. By
doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember..
"Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life
partner, your suitable career or business, therefore
the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity
that you have now, don't waste time!
2006-06-21 02:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by idiotguidebook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on the relationship you hav wth ur bf-how long u been together, r u in love, u live together etc etc. U won't go thru ur life without being attracted to other people thats just impossible! U gottta weigh up pros n cons of what u got with ur man against the risk of a new but uncertain future.
2006-06-21 02:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by bassmish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how long have you been with your boyfriend? If you haven't been with him for very long (under a few months), then go for this other guy. But make sure that he's willing to give you what you want! If you break up with your boyfriend, hoping that this other guy will want to have a relationship with you, you may just end up single. So make sure to find out what this other guy wants and if he likes you, wants to be with you, etc. Even if you have been together with your boyfriend for a long time, maybe there's just no "spark" left. It's ok to move on.
2006-06-21 02:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bf...how long...how serious?
If you are attracted to another guy, then I'll bet that you are not really in love w/ the bf......
Get rid of the b/f and try the new guy...but what happens when another guys comes alone that you fell like you are "fallin for"?
2006-06-21 02:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're attracted to him or is it just infatuation? If you're sure its attraction, you've lost the spark with your boyfriend and its most probably time to move on.
If you need to be sure, ask this guy what his intentions toward you are - if he feels the same as you - dump your boyfriend and give him a try!
just be sure that you wont miss your bf if you let him go - theres no point in acting on a whim - you need to be certain
2006-06-28 02:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I'm in the same boat as you....I met a guy on my cruise not to long ago in May and I have a boyfriend of 3yrs now and I love the guy don't get me wrong but this another one and I we hit it off so well as well have a lot more in common and he lives in Windsor and I live in Ottawa ONT and he drove 9hrs to see me for the weekend...And I have no clue what to do either and i'm seeing him next Friday for the long weekend =D.....Great guy too, So yeah my advice for you is to follow your heart and if you and your boyfriend don't see eye to eye then just get rid of him IF he doesn't make you happy!
Jackie
2006-06-21 02:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEARN HOW TO COMMITT TO SOMEONE. DONT JUST JUMP FROM MAN TO MAN IT BECOMES A PATTERN YOU WILL DO THAT YOUR WHOLE LIFE. YOU NEED TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT. BE HONEST WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND AND WHY ARE YOU SO CLOSE TO A GUY WHEN YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I THINK THIS WILL BLOW UP IN YOUR FACE BUT MAKE A WISE CHOICE. DONT CHEAT ON BOYFRIEND THOUGH. AND JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE DOESNT MEAN YOU SHOULD BE WITH THEM WHAT WOULD YOU SAY IF YOUR BOYFRIEND TOLD YOU WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO TELL HIM? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF HE HAS GOTTEN SO CLOSE TO ANOTHER GIRL HE IS ACTUALLY CONSIDERING LEAVING YOU?
EMAIL ME AT jus_032000@yahoo.com maybe I can help you.
2006-06-21 02:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with that bf and go out with the other man but be careful cause the other dude might not like you.. : ) : P : D : B
2006-06-21 02:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Stormie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself listen to your heart instead of your head, in my experience your heart never lies but remember the grass is always greener on the other side i would suggest you think really hard before you make any decision, there's no going back
2006-06-21 02:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by red lyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish with your boyfriend before you cheat on him, he doesn't deserve it.
That way you will be free to go out with the new guy if he asks without feeling guilty.
If you were happy with your boyfriend you wouldn't be interested in this new man
2006-06-21 02:09:34 · answer #11 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋