I broke up with my girl in Jan and the reason was that she said that she had started feeling for this other common friend that we had in a group of 4. we had been going out for the past 2 and a half years... the whole breakup scene was all bad since the guy she started feeling for was feeding her bullshit while i was busy preparing for my brothers wedding, of course during that time i couldnt keep up with long night talks and everything..
the group of 4 had been together for 4 years in univeristy.. the guy friend who did all this... well i am not friends with him anymore.. i ingore him and everything... the girl i was oging out with called me some days back saying that she misses the friend she had in me... i wana ask.. duz she still have feelings for me? everyone whom we collectively knew and the 4th member of our group told her that she was making a big mistake.... now we have graduated..
i want opinion... is she still feeling ofr me... if she is.. should i get back with her?
2006-06-21 01:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by Vantage 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is having feeling for you maybe she's not either way do you really want to put yourself through that pain again? As they say, "Old habits die hard", there is no guarantee that she'll be faithful to you should the two of you get back together.
two years of dating is too long to just dump someone like that. She misses the friend in you? I doubt it. She probably realised that you are a better lover and a better person and that is what she misses and now she wants what she can't have.
Go and look for greener pastures my dear and find yourself someone who'll appreciate you more than she ever did. And I'm not only saying this as a woman but as a person as well.
2006-06-21 03:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she is unfortunately not worth it, because the truth is that she will do it again, regardless of what she may feel now... Most likely she just misses the familiarty of you and the safety of your previous relationship. A girlfriend (or vice versa) should be there for you and you be there for her.... If a girl is only concerned about her own self and her own needs and what she isn't getting all the time rather than
what you both need in a relationship then she isn't worth it. Let her run to this other guy... let her regret her decision in future, but by then you will know you deserve better and guess what you that better girl will be there too...My advice: FORGET HER...she is no longer the girl you used to know! If you give her the benefit of the doubt-just remember in future when she leaves you again at least then learn the lesson and never make the same mistake again. Life will improve and you will feel happier.
2006-06-21 09:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by jsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were you, i would move on..it sounds like she misses you or is lonely and the other guy is not living up to what she thought he would..most girls leave their long time boyfriends for something new and exciting and i guess she regrets it and she liked all 4 of you hanging out as a group and she misses that...if you arent talking to the guy, then you shouldnt hang out with her, she is equally at fault, if not more than the other guy. Since you just graduated, you should know that its a big world and too grow up and you will be able to find other girls..have fun and enjoy your life while your young..
2006-06-21 08:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by missy524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think she still has feelings for you coz you said she misses you and all that.. but at the same time, i think it still depends on you. if you yourself still feels something towards her, then maybe you can get back with her. but if you don't have anything to do with her anymore then maybe it's time to let go and just go on with your life.
2006-06-21 09:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by marlianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move along. Anything else will dredge up an unpleasant event.
2006-06-21 08:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is feeling bad but dont go back to her because she can break your heart any time because of useless gossip
2006-06-21 08:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by shes killing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think she wont do it again?
2006-06-21 09:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Johnydepp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋