Not wanting to typecast here however …!
You meet a guy, fairly good looking, he makes you laugh, stable etc. but soon realise he is easy going and perhaps too soft or kind for his own good and by that I don’t mean soppy or weak.
Something suddenly changes and you then usually start playing him, as unfortunately it seems to be a popular way of saying goodbye!
Is it because he isn’t enough of a challenge, perhaps you don’t find him as attractive as you thought, is non-confrontational really boring. ???
Would love to know your opinions on what makes right-oh suddenly oh-no!!
2006-06-21 01:29:35 · 19 answers · asked by willw8andc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in the first place i wouldn't start playing him, if i didn't want him anymore, i'd just tell him. and this person doesn't sound so bad....sounds like someone i wouldn't mind getting to know
2006-06-21 01:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jessicca 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls are like that, maybe its just a matter of timing too, until you get to know each other better, Reationships are never straight forward these days. Personally i'd quite like to meet a guy like that but he would need to still show he was interested in me too else i might think he wasn't. Different types for different folks i guess. This guys just had a bit of bad look so maybe he's meeting all the same type of girls in the same type of place and should branch out a bit further, stay optimistic and be happy. if it doesn't work out it wasn't mean to be.
2006-06-21 01:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by yo_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wouldn't say oh-no or head for the hills. I prefer a kind / easy going man I have dated my fair share of bad boys and players and it never works there maybe more of a challenge in dating bad boys but a women with any substance would prefer a real man to a boy playing silly games you just need to start dating real women and you will find some one!
2006-06-21 03:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjayne2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how a guy acts or how perfect he seems if there isn't chemistry there for both people then it isn't going to work. We have no way of controlling who we are attracted to. That is all up to fate and in God's hands. Unfortunately she must not have been your Miss right even if she seemed perfect to you. Just keep your head up and stay confident. You will find THE one someday.
2006-06-21 01:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just described my partner. I would never, never do anything to hurt my man as he is one of the most precious things in the world to me along with my kids. I think you may just be getting involved with the wrong kind of person. You sound great so dint try to change for anyone, i am sure you will meet the right girl soon. Good luck x
2006-06-21 01:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want a guy who can stand up for himself and what he believes in, one who knows his own mind and isn't a sheep that just goes with the flow.
I wouldn't want to be with a guy that just let everyone walk all over him, I'd have no respect for someone like that, theres a big difference between non-confrontational and being a push-over.
A woman wants her partner to be able to look out for her and specially any children they may have not someone who wimps out and wont stick up for them under a bit of pressure
2006-06-21 01:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's the challenge thing! Obviously everyone wants someone who will treat them right, but we want to fight a little bit for it, if people know they can take advantage, they usually will. A guy that keeps you on your toes, without being nasty or anything, will always have the ladies after him!
2006-06-21 01:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by scorpio32x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of guy justed landed in wrong hands and can move on and find a better person for himself. Never stick around with a person who does not appreciate you.
2006-06-21 01:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is the problem your selecting the wrong type of gals to date. Perhaps you need to look at what type of gals your attracted to. Sometimes we base our selections in the wrong type of people. Look at all your past relationships and ask what they all have in common? they all used you? then your choosing women who have selfish personalites or high maitance types. Be more selective in your search for a mate. Good Luck.
2006-06-21 01:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by trudie_barraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, just have not met the right one. Don't try to become something your not for someone else. Stay easy going and funny. There are ladies who like this and do not see this as a weakness.
2006-06-21 01:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by smurfette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the sudden change is.I don't play,I'm up front and honest,don't want people to play me either.There is no good reason to hurt and play with someones feelings.
2006-06-21 01:38:01 · answer #11 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋