i lost my mother to cancer 3 years ago and at that time i "lost"it pretty bad,lost my job,tried meds but with no avail,to this day it would be honest to say that taking my own life still crosses my mind daily,will this feeling go away or is it deeper than i even know and what should i do to get out of this non-stop pain/emptiness in my heart and longing to die to be with my mom again in heaven.
2006-06-21 00:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sweet Heart this wont help..do u think ur mother would want so do something that would harm u...many of us face difficult circumstances everyday..which can be cateogarized into emotional/physical/mental situations..that doesnt mean u give up..u being distressed might not allow ur mothers soul rest in peace..i would suggest that u wake up and face life not by suciding or doin something stupid like that just be happy and find routes through whuch happiness itself knocks at ur door step..what abt the remaing of ur family..try living for them..take care sweety
2006-06-21 01:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There usually comes a point in time when you can put the grief down on the side of the road & walk on down the road without it. I have continued to experience the "missing" feelings without abatement. The "ouch" is not so bad as you are feeling. I guess my first question is, "Would your mother want you to live your life as you are?" I am a mom & the most I hope for my children is a happy healthy life. I can't imagine any mom not wanting those things for their children. I think your mom would be very upset knowing how you are suffering. If she cannot be here with you to ease this suffering she would want you to take the steps you need to take in order to be healthy & then happy again. I'm sure your mother loves you wherever she is & is wishing for a happy life for you. Think about talking to a trusted friend or priest or school counselor to bring you some relief & work through this terrible pain of yours. As a mom I am praying for your pain to be released from you & I am wishing you take the steps to make this happen. May God Bless you & lay his hand on you to bring you some peace.
2006-06-21 01:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by curiousgeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terry..Wow..I am so sorry about your Mom, I know how important my parents are to me..First I wish you would get back to the doctor and talk with someone about your feelings..Yes I lost a wonderful grandmother many years ago and it was hard for me..she was an important person in my life and I use her as my guardian angel to look over me..I miss her today and sometimes I have a tear or two for her..It is not unnatural to have pain and loss for someone who you love and care about. Grief doesn't have a time table..what you need to do is to think about the wonderful things about your Mom and continue her legacy by example..I think there are people out there that can help you and I would find that right clinic or mental health facility who can help you with medication or just talking about feelings and fears. Your Mom would want you to stay here on earth and have a good life rather for you to end it early to join her. You know she would tell you to take care of yourself and those family members left behind. Please call someone today and get started enjoying your life and living through your Mom's memory..
2006-06-21 01:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by FloNightingGale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your mother, I know saying something cant not take away the sense of loss you have suffered.
The best I can do, being a homeopathic physician I can help you in overcoming the grief, that is if you will heed my advice.
If you feeling suicidal please, please, please, take AURUM MET 30C thrice a day half hour before or after meals it would ease your grief and make you feel well and happy again by the grace of the almighty you will be feeling fine in a few days.
You will feel the effects of the remedy taking place within minutes of taking it and it wont make you feel sedated or drugged or anything it will bring a sense of ease and well being in you which you wont get from any other remedy. You can decide whether to continue it after taking it for atleast three days it wont cause any complications or give you any side effects and it is totally non addictive. And please keep me informed about your progress.
God Bless you with patience to bear the loss and happiness all through your life !
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Take Care and God Bless you !
2006-06-21 01:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same feelings in my life,It was 3-4 mos and I would still sit in a world of my own pain and just out of the blue start to cry,My loss was not a human loss but a best friend dog,Shiner.I had her for 13 years.I fignally had to go to the DR.and she put me on Welbutrin xl it helped alot you sound very depressed to me and there is help.Please go to your Dr. maybe you need differant meds orsince you believe in heaven Pray!!Your mom will hear you and send an angel to comfort you,Good luck.
2006-06-21 01:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Groomer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry to hear about your loss. It sounds like you were very close with your mother. Taking your own life wouldnt make your mother happy. She is watching over you and making sure you are alright. Just remember she may be gone physically but she will always live in your heart.
God bless you
2006-06-21 00:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by mindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might consider seeking the advice of a therapist. good luck
2006-06-21 00:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry terry....
2006-06-21 00:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by mrgreekgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋