Should I suicide, as now I am addicted and this is not in my religion ?

Question

am 22 yrs old Indian and was studing in boys school since childhood.
last year when my studies got over , I came back to my home, as my parents are no more so I am living with my aunt and uncle.My uncle is usually busy with administrating our business,so he often lives away from home.
I am rich but alone and my aunt (37 years old) has been seducing me for the past 2 months in which she touched me and made me touch her(by seducing me).I couldnot control myself as this was the first time I was with a woman(as I was in boys school),so I did liked her body,now I feel addicted to her.I can't tell this to anyone as this will bring a storm in our family and so will our buisness will be affected.

and last night we even had sex.

Answer 1

u should try to talk straight to her about what she is doing.
ask her questions like is this acceptable in the society etc.

Answer 2

You need to tell your aunt (who I hope is your aunt by marriage!) that this is wrong and you cannot continue this. As much as you enjoy her affections, it's wrong and causing you too much stress.

Your aunt is apparently not getting enough attention from your uncle and is finding you to be an interesting substitute. I'm not saying she doesn't care for you, but she's using you.

Then you need to move OUT of that house. Find yourself your own wife somewhere. You'll never find your own if your busy somewhere else. And when you get a wife, remember to listen to her and understand what her needs are. She may perfer to have less money and a husband at home, than lots of money and be lonely all the time.


(Suicide is NOT the answer to anything. It only causes more problems for other people. You don't want that!)

Answer 3

Hi,
Pity you find yourself in this ugly situation, however, the fact that you realise it's a wrong one, and are seeking for counsel on how to get out of it is a sure step in the right direction.
I'd advise you first ask God's forgiveness, and for strenght to look your aunt in the eyes and tell her you can't go on with the relationship. Then, move out of that environment. It might help to seek out a mature person -I suggest a preacher -, to confide in, and this is better done in your new place, so he can help counsel and pray with you. Don't bother confessing to your folks or friends, not even anyone who knows you, as words have a way of spreading, so it doesn't get back to your family. Trust aunt not to breath a word of it to anyone, they usually never do, so don't bother about her telling. Also, I'd advise your movement should take her unawares, so she doesn't come up with anything funny!
You could start a new life, and join a fellowship of believers who would help you rehabilitate better in your new environment, while you seek out a godly lady and get married since you have the means anyway.
Best of lucks!

Answer 4

Suicide is not the answer. Just tell your aunt "NO!"

"NO, I will NOT sleep with you."

"NO, I will NOT touch you."

"NO" to anything you don't want to do that you know is morally wrong or against your religion.

The next thing to do is move out of your aunt and uncle's home. You are 22 years old and able to support yourself financially. Leave and find yourself a good woman who will love you for yourself. You deserve a better situation than you are in now.

Answer 5

That sounds very awkward, but you shouldn't commit suicide. I would say that you should not be so close to your aunt, and if you have any close friends that you can trust, talk it out with him or her, they can help. And there are plenty of other women out there, so you don't have to be so addicted to only her. If there's nothing else you can do, just move out of the house. This way, you can get away from your aunt, and it won't affect the business.

Answer 6

uve had a tough time, so to forget everything and start afresh, u got the money so take it and leave home. ur aunt's married so she doesnt need ur support. u need support so u shud get married.

but on the other hand, u should seek forgiveness from ur god, or whatever it is according to ur religion, talk it over with ur aunt n dont commit such an act again. once again, leaving that house is a good suggestion.

Answer 7

Enjoy ur sex as long as u r liking it... most of the people in the world have such experiences to varying degrees. Take it easy. Time will settle things and u will grow up and be with many more women!!!

Answer 8

STUPID...................u did the worst mistake in ur life for which ur parents soul will never be fine. Don't sucide but leave tat stupid woman and marry some girl asap and go somewhere tooo far where u wont find such stupid people.

U did the most stupid thing...now if u wanna live then leave that ppl asap.

Answer 9

U've already got the money...find a job .....get out of that hse.....find a nice girl of your age ....fall in love ...get married....have lot of sex. (For heavan sake, having sex with your aunty is like having sex with your own mother....would u do it with your mom if she has the perfect body, gone insane n started seducing u.....??????)......This is pure bullshit.....don give excuses....from boy's school, 1st time and so on. Hey tell me which religion allows this kinda things?

Answer 10

If you're that rich, sell your share of the business and move away from your aunt.

Suicide is not the answer. Life is a gift from God, and to kill yourself is to tell God that you don't trust Him to help you. You're telling Him that you know what's better for your life than He does.

God loves you, and He will help you. All you have to do is ask.

Answer 11

1-If you are a Muslem>>>>> No >>> Never give up hope of God's Mercy and Forgivness
2- If you are Jewish>>>> It is allowed by your religon
3- If you are an aithiest>>> All is WELL>
Any way you look at it: the answer is NO.
so, Look for medical or social help.