Should I suicide, I don't want to break my uncle marriage ?

Question

am 22 yrs old and was studing in boys school since childhood.
last year when my studies got over , I came back to my home, as my parents are no more so I am living with my aunt and uncle.My uncle is usually busy with administrating our business,so he often lives away from home.
I am rich but alone and my aunt (37 years old) has been seducing me for the past 2 months in which she touched me and made me touch her(by seducing me).

and last night we even had sex.

I don't want to break my uncle's marriage as he loves her so much.Moreover, I think she will ask me for love again.

am addicted to my aunt's body now,I can't help myself,she has been using me since 2 months!!

Answer 1

u should try to talk straight to her about what she is doing.
ask her questions like is this acceptable in the society etc.

Answer 2

Well, that's a little more than seducing. Listen, and listen hard if you listen to nothing else ever again: STOP being so hard on yourself. You are not the first person to be in this situation, and any reasonable person can see how this happened. Look at it another way. A lonely woman needs attention, human touch, and affection. You are also a little bit lonely, and you comfort each other. Your uncle often lives away from home?? He has an issue there. I am willing to bet that he is also "doing his own thing" but people stay together for appearances, comfort, and routine. Your uncle is in his own world, even though he is providing for family lifestyle, he is also providing for himself. Suicide is never an answer, and certainly not in a case like this. Every situation has a good way to look at it, and a bad way, especially with matters of sex. I don't think you are in the USA, but if you are, look around you. Life goes on, and people just live each day as whatever comes their Way. You are OK. You aren't looking break up the marriage, right? You aren't looking to marry your aunt, right? As big as this all seems, it is really just a moment in time. it will pass, and you will grow into different areas of your life. Be good to yourself, and like I said, this stuff happens. Don't let it take away your happiness.

Answer 3

First, I am sorry, but you do have to take responsibility. This is not only your aunt's fault. You are an adult, and you can say "No".
You had the power to stop her, to turn around and walk away.

Second, there is no reason to commit suicide.
Simply stay away from your aunt. Rent or buy an apartment and move out. Let it all fade into the past.

Sure, you should feel guilty, but now you can feel good that you are going to do the right thing. If you feel you need therapy to move on with your life, then get therapy. Suicide is not a solution.

Answer 4

Don't comment Suicide. I don't know what part of the whole you live but I also felt like suicide about 2 years ago when I had been sexually abuse like you and had 2 guys use me.
I went to Sexual Assault Center which in Australia is free. This has help me heads. I think you need to talk to a Counseller they really do help or life line. Don't use drug to solve your problem either.

Answer 5

Suicide is NEVER the way out. Have a talk with your aunt and tell her that this behavior has to stop, or you will report her to the authorities, and her husband. What good will killing yourself do? Your aunt is sick, and she will just find another young victim to replace you.Is this what you want to happen? Then do something about it.

Answer 6

y will u commit suicide??? If u want to have an affair with ur aunt then i would say yes please commit suicide,,, but u r quite a big guy now to mange on ur own n be independent... find a job n study same time... this is a really dirty relationship between u and ur aunt

Answer 7

dont suicide. find a place of your own to live in. that way your aunt can't have sex with you. also tell your uncle about your problem and maybe he will give you the money for your own place.

Answer 8

1. No, do not even think of offing yourself. 2. You're right--she will want more. 3. The marriage is already broken. 4. Maybe you're doing him a favor. 5. For your own self-respect, move out immediately. You say you're rich, you can afford it.

Answer 9

suicide is only taking the easy way out. my partners cousin was buried today becuse he took the easy way out and we also have to bury one of our close friends next week because he done the same thing both of them over the opposite sex. i think you should talk to your aunt and tell her you want it to stop if she wont listen go to your uncle and tell him what is going on. obviously your uncle deserves better from the both of you. suicide is now answer you are only leaving your loved ones behind

Answer 10

hey are u up to something......u've been asking question about the same problem.....stop wasting ppls time...Can't u get it..the majority is telling u to leave the house and start new....what's the problem.....U can get all the advice from everyone here but the final decision is yours dude.....think wisely and face the consequents.

Answer 11

youre 22 and big enough to have alife of your own.move out of your uncle's place and start earning and living on your own