Should I suicide, I don't want to break my uncle marriage ?

Question

am 22 yrs old and was studing in boys school since childhood.
last year when my studies got over , I came back to my home, as my parents are no more so I am living with my aunt and uncle.My uncle is usually busy with administrating our business,so he often lives away from home.
I am rich but alone and my aunt (37 years old) has been seducing me for the past 2 months in which she touched me and made me touch her(by seducing me).

and last night we even had sex.

i am addicted to my aunt body now,I can't help myself,she has been using me since 2 months!!

Answer 1

she is alone,thats why using you.
try to get out of house or have someone in house.

she may be feeling what woman feel at 30's as that the time they r in thir hype,but loneliness is making her towards u.

take care!!

Answer 2

Well, that's a little more than seducing.
Listen, and listen hard if you listen to nothing else ever again: STOP being so hard on yourself. You are not the first person to be in this situation, and any reasonable person can see how this happened. Look at it another way. A lonely woman needs attention, human touch, and affection. You are also a little bit lonely, and you comfort each other. Your uncle often lives away from home??
He has an issue there. I am willing to bet that he is also "doing his own thing" but people stay together for appearances, comfort, and routine.
Your uncle is in his own world, even though he is providing for family lifestyle, he is also providing for himself.
Suicide is never an answer, and certainly not in a case like this.
Every situation has a good way to look at it, and a bad way, especially with matters of sex. I don't think you are in the USA, but if you are, look around you. Life goes on, and people just live each day as whatever comes their Way.
You are OK. You aren't looking break up the marriage, right? You aren't looking to marry your aunt, right?
As big as this all seems, it is really just a moment in time. it will pass, and you will grow into different areas of your life. Be good to yourself, and like I said, this stuff happens. Don't let it take away your happiness.

Answer 3

So you think that killing yourself and just be no more is the answer?imagine you would not wake up again.
Things very wrong always happen to people, but the world does not stop there.So take some power from this world and move on.She is not the only woman in the world. Try not to hate yourself and then you shall know you deserve better chance.And know one thing, it is natural when you put a woman and a man in one place that attraction would start especially if there is seduction.it is human nature when it is not controlled.But you have only one life to live on this earth, do not waste it over a problem you can solve easily by moving out.Never think that this attraction you have towards your aunt is real.The world is so big; do not waste it.Move out,fall in love, travel around, or just find things you like about yourself and then build a good life on it.You said you have always been in a boys school,maybe thats why. You are young, everything is possible.Do not tell your uncle about this affair; it shall only hurt him and hurt you.Move out.Be in control of your life.Good luck.

Answer 4

Do not suicide. Consult someone you know about this, do not be seduced by her again and try to fight your temptations. You may one day talk to your uncle and tell him of how she seduces you every time. I think he wouldn't be that disturbed being out of town all the time. And, for a woman with her husabnd not around, an affair was sure to come. Do not feel hated against the aunt. She was obviously lonely and still is. A disrupted marriage might not come along if she talks to her husband more and he understands her needs. Suicide is not for this situation. THink of your future. You're 22! DONT SUICIDE. !!!!!!
PS. As others say, you may wnat to move out too. You wouldn't want to live a life of pure lust and tempatation all the time.

Answer 5

don't kill yourslf over something someone else did to you! i mean it's your aunts fault for seducing you and sometimes sexual advances are difficult to ignore or resist if the person seducing you is in power or is in a position where they can alter your life for the worst.then again, for you to be able to get an erection to have sexual intercourse with this lady meant that you were interested in having sex with her otherwise you would'nt have "stood up to the occasion." i suggest you do some self introspection and find out if you're not attracted to this lady in any way but make sure that your uncle does not find out the wrong way (catching you and your 'aunt' in the act!) You have to be careful not to upset your uncle because sometimes blood is not thicker than water and with your parents passing on, he is the only one who is there for you. you have a long life ahead of you, do not go through it alone without family because it's going to be very difficult at times! good luck to you and i hope you find the answer you're looking for.

Answer 6

I would suggest that you move out and get your own place so that you do not cause any further problems, your aunt has taken advantage of your because she is lonely.

Suicide is not an option so don't even think about it, go out to places where people your age can party and have a good time and live your life.

Don't be so hard on yourself, things are never bad enough that you can't work through it

Just keep reminding yourself

'This to shall pass'

whenever you feel down

Answer 7

You don't want to break up your aunt and uncle so you are considering suicide? On top of that you are rich? Move out away from them. Far away from them if need be. Start a new life. Suicide is the coward's way out.

Answer 8

Suicide is never the answer. You are old enough to say "no" to a situation you are unconfortable with. You know that touching/having sex w/ your uncle's wife is wrong....since you are an adult and you say you are rich, then maybe its time you thank your uncle and his family for their kindness and get your own place and find yourself a girlfriend. Good luck.

Answer 9

Just move out of her reach and set a life of your own with a young girl to suit your age. Or focus on work or studying. DOnt be a nit wit and lose yourself into the huge bosoms.

Answer 10

NO Suicide is not the solution to ANY problem. There should be places local to you, where you can go for help. You could start with your doctor who could make a referral. You could start with the local community mental-health agency who could make a refereal. You could start with law-enformecment who could make a referral. You could look for a therapist in a counseling center in your area. Please don't take your life. God isn't finished with you yet.

By The Way:
You should tell your uncle - maybe he can help you too.
When your uncle finds out, you won't be the one who damaged his marriage - that's not your fault, don't accept that guilt.