I have been dating this guy for sometime now but the thing is hes my sisters ex boyfriend, I have been with him for 9 months already but i dont know, Is this wrong, my sister says she didnt feel anything for him and she was with him to get over her ex, and well I never thought I was ganna get with him and I did, after they broke up, and so far we have been togther for this long, but sometimes when my sisters around he keeps a distance with me and he doesnt act all cuddly, but when she leaves he starts kuddling, not only with her but with some other of my sisters friends, but with his friends he does kuddle. I'm confused???
2006-06-20 22:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Lilmamasita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly, family will ALWAYS be family; your loyalty should lie with your sister. When she says she 'didn't feel anything for him' this is a perfect example of protecting her pride, as if she's going to admit that she really liked him when a)they broke up and b)you're now with him! This would not only be awkward for her but also for your BF, as you have found. If you still decide to stay with this guy although it poses a threat to your relationship with your sister, you have to address his shyness infront of others if it bothers you. Ask him gently why he pulls away infront of others, etc.......i still think you should think really carefully about you and you're sister.....
2006-06-21 00:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by expert_female_advice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your confused because that relationship is wrong he is a creep to sleep with his ex girlfriends sister and you should really think of yourself with more respect then to even consider dating your sisters ex duh? I mean she only acts like she doesnt care because you didnt give her much of a choice what else can she say you made the choice to talk to her ex no matter how good or bad their relationship was you should never do that to her leave him alone he is a jerk.
2006-06-21 06:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might like U alot but he is just not 2 comfortable with this situation,u know infront of ur sis and her friends he feel strange.Give him some more time,i wish you all the best!
2006-06-21 06:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong. You don't do these kind of things. There will always be strange situations. It because you are humans. Truist just have fun but don't take it seriuosly - you'll just get hurt
2006-06-21 05:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Yves L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your confusion is perfect in its applicability as it transforms the way you narrated. Please get rid of him sooner the best. Avoid even mingling or having contacts of any nature with him in future. This way you and your sister, both will be benefitted.
2006-06-21 05:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a good wack and dump him at soonest as possible.
2006-06-21 05:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't need to dump him. just talk to him about it. sometimes being around ex girlfriends, its a little awkward. just don't dump him.
2006-06-21 05:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Camaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time if you have to ask if something is wrong,it is.
2006-06-21 05:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just a little uncomfortable, maybe so that he won't put you in a difficult position.
2006-06-21 06:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump dis supr loser . i thnk hes jus playin wid u.
2006-06-21 05:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋