Has anyone gone through this, and if so, how did you cope with the depression and stress and not let it affect the baby... We are still living together and the fact of the matter is that it is very difficult to still have him around and simply living separate lives? By law, he does not have to move out, unless he voluntarily does.
2006-06-20 22:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by Snowwhite 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
THANK YOU TO ALL FOR YOUR COMFORTING WORDS.. I WAS REALLY SEEING MY UNBORN BABY AS A WRONG AND CONSIDERING ABORTION, BUT AFTER ALL YOUR WORDS, ME AND MY BABY WILL BE OK.. THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.
2006-06-21 05:11:59 · update #1
Been there done that...You will be ok!!! If you have family and friends near you, I really encourage you to have them help you move out...I was 7 months pregnant and had a 21 month old when my ex filed...try your hardest to remove yourself from the living situation...as far as the emotions go...all you can do is focus on YOU and your baby, your health is most important right now, don't lose track of that! You will be ok...my mom always says to "gather the calm around you" (kinda cheesy, but hey). Pray for strengh (it will come to you), and keep your chin up. Surround yourself with people that love and care about you the most. My heart really goes out to you (I can actually feel the heartbreak...I never knew that it actually physically hurt until this happened to me), I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! Good Luck!
2006-06-21 05:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so glad that you've decided to let your baby live! You're doing the right thing. Just focus on protecting your child by staying healthy, getting enough sleep, taking time to relax, and avoiding arguments with your husband. I also recommend reading through the gospel of John. I know you will find answers there.
For information on your baby's development, you may want to check out this beautiful site: http://www.JustTheFacts.org
If you need any kind of financial, legal, or medical help, or if you would like free maternity and baby supplies, please visit a pregnancy care center near you. All their services are free and confidential, and you can find one near you by visiting http://www.optionline.org They can also provide you with support and counseling during this difficult time.
Best wishes to you and your little one.
2006-06-24 22:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that you cant work things out just try to keep civil expecally when your child is born. Babies can feel stress and tension in a relationship. If you soon to be ex husband is starting to bring other women to your home..depends on if both of your names are on the morgage/lease but I would ask him to leave if he wont then try to find someone like a friend or relitive to live with untill you can afford to get your own place and imediatelly after the baby is born sue for child suport.
2006-06-21 09:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are going through that. It must be very difficult. I was under the impression it was against the law to file for divorce during a pregnancy (either party), but it must vary state by state. I will look around and see if I can find any information on support groups for you. All the best to you and your baby.
Edited to add: http://community.pregnancyweekly.com/Forums/ShowForum.aspx?ForumID=82
2006-06-21 05:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz try and work this out for the baby you dont want him/her growing up knowing what the parents are like. at least try and be friends try to sit down and sort a arrangement on how you live trust me its for the best
2006-06-21 05:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by a_woz_ere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to abort a child in this case
2006-06-21 05:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by akshay_cena20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for u, I appreciate ur boldness.
2006-06-21 05:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by gentileworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋