When they talk to me theres a differnce than talking to my other brothers
THey Are Engineers but invest a lot(Mre than enough, They got someone to make a desk, which turned out very disgusting with low qaulity nails andlow quality wood)
Most of all they dont spend quality time withme
Its like a viscous cycle
I dont work buissily cuase they dont understand
They dont show understanding cos I dont show them
How to get over this
2006-06-20 21:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by sartyhearty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You love them = They love you.
You should understand them = They will understand you.
God Bless You.
2006-06-20 21:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that this is how you feel about each other.....but have you ever told your parents these things you are telling us here? You guys need to talk, talk, talk. Don't be afraid to cause an argument. Real people have to get real with each other sometimes for the sake of better understanding. A verbal confrontation is not the only way. How about writing them a letter. Pour your soul in there. These are your parents. You are the most important person in their life. Everything they do is for you and your future. It can only get better, because you even say it yourself that it's like a vicious cycle. Stop whining and be proactive instead....do something to change your situation. You have a hand to put ideas into action....a mouth to speak up...use them!!!!
2006-06-21 05:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to communicate nicely with your parents. They will understand you Parent is the best in the world, you must remember this.
2006-06-21 04:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait about 5-10 years have a kid of your own and everything (just about) that drove you insane about your parents will make sense or you yourself will be doing it.
2006-06-21 04:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by heather m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats called generation gap. cant do anything about that the same will happen to you when your child ask the same que on this net then you ans that
2006-06-21 05:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, when you are in your 20's or so they will be a lot smarter.
2006-06-21 04:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that maybe you need to do more school work that will pass away your time. hint spelling
2006-06-21 04:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to talk to them by letting them understand u so that u can also understand them. good luck.
2006-06-21 07:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋