Cause we had some problems, I sent an email to my boy f about my decision for our relation ( friendship or couple) and ask for his decision. But I haven't got reply from him for 01 week. I want to ask YOU
what is he thinking? Does he mean breaking up by his silence? Note: his business is becoming very bad, but I only know it recently via friends and he doesn't tell me about it.
What should I do? Note: i don't like to call him for some objective reasons
2006-06-20 21:19:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Doesn't sound like you two are even going out.... Good luck.
2006-06-20 21:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Objectively what are the purpose of being in love the criteria is so far upon the way you are living during courtships, you didn’t observed any changes what are you actually discusses for, you might have miss somewhere else, while a lot remains to be done, what you need now at that stage is a pin- sharp focus. By all means try to get him down, there are lot of strategic for woman it depends on sharper you are, give him all the manner of distraction love to confuse him, seriously of a great focus attention you will achieve your aim.
2006-06-21 04:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by oyetimtop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you want. Maybe if your boyfriend is having problems at work , that means he has alot on his plate and really doesn't have time to talk to you now. This does not mean he doesn't care about you. But right now his priority is his job, then you. When his job will get better then the priorities will rverse and you will be his number 1. That's just one explanation. Another is that he trying to avoid you and maybe he is not that serious. Or even better, he is avoiding you and going out with your friend who told you that he is having trouble at work. Or maybe your friend wants to go out with you. Make your pick. But bottom line is you need to talk instead of guessing
2006-06-21 04:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Yves L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he may be going through a rough time with his business and thats his priority, by you asking for a decision he most likely thinks your only thinking about yourself instead of being by his side or there for him if he needs you. by wanting a decision you may very well pushed him away totally. since you mention you were already having some problems, demanding a answer during hard times will push another away and he may be so ticked off that he thinks or wants it over. sorry to say it but it sounds that way. whether i was friends or a couple with someone. if i was going through a rough time, i would expect that the person would be there for me during my time of need. if they were demanding or not there for me i would let them go. best of luck.
2006-06-21 04:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, give him some time to recover from his business tensions. He might have not replied bcoz his business is running under loss. Wait for some time. Try to support him and motivate him. You should be close to him whether he is ur friend or b/f. Real relationship lies in being supportive during bad times. One day he will reply to ur question.
2006-06-21 04:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Aniroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stand that for certain objective reasons you don't like to call him does not tally with your desire of getting a reply to your e-mail. In absense of you having gathered information on his not-so-good but very bad in your own words, it is you having a negative attitude towards him knowingly or unknowingly, which needs to repaired at your end.
2006-06-21 04:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to talk to him.You cannot just assume or conclude what he might have in his mind.When you got into this relationship you talked about it.If you want to quit it is better that you talk about it too.Both of you can't just turn your backs.Or else it will become an unfinished business.
2006-06-21 04:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥t|nYâ?¥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem #1
What kind of meaningful relationship would use email to discuss such things? If you can't talk face to face about it, then does it really exist?
2006-06-21 04:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your objective reasons, TALK TO HIM, real relationships require real communication
Sorry so hard on you, Good Luck and God Bless
2006-06-21 04:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Old Wise One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in person. If you haven't seen or talked to him in a week, I think it's probably a bad sign.
2006-06-21 04:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should write him an email and break it off if he is going to do that to yu then he doesnt really care much for your feelings does he?
2006-06-21 04:33:21 · answer #11 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋