My family sucks?

Question

I m 21 have a parents n younger bro. they all scold me prostitute n *****. i m not.. my mum nags my dad scold me in vulgar my bro beats me.. i got to leave the house i have a bf who hurts me at times. but he wanna marry me... he is already married n he gonna divorce soon it takes one yr but i can't wait i want to leave my hell home fast. wat can i do? but i can't stay in other pple house or relative house... help me pls

Answer 1

seek help other than yahoo why would you ask a bunch of insomniacs about a ? like that

Answer 2

lol if u r a working woman then just leave u r home coz it's not sweet at all
& dont even think of that stupid bf.what the hell u want to do?
he says that he"ll give divorce to the 1st one?but what if he find another woman ?then u"ll be the 2nd one to get divorced
moreover u r saying he is abusing u
i think u haven't taste love & affectionate at all from n y part
well right now just have patient & forget every thing
1)try to get a job if u have'nt (plz don't go for n y stupid 1 understand? remember no work is big or small) u can try for restaurants & mc d's
2)get the hell out of u r home coz it's no worthy at all to live there
u can live in rented house.(be sure it should be in a safe place & plz compromise with u r ego's at this point of time)
3)forgot u r suckhead bf he is good for nothing (believe me now or u"ll get known later but at that time u could have lost everythingof u)
4)if there r not bad days them how can we make a difference between good & bad days???
it's testing time dear either u"ll be defeated like a typical woman situation ooooorrrrrrrr after few years u have u r own dignity & pride .then every hansome man wants u. just have patience & plz if u can do try to go to temple daily just even for a minute or 2 but plz (this is my request)
& if u need n y more help YAHOO PEOPLE R HERE TO HELP U

Answer 3

The fact that you can't stay in other places shows that there is still some kind of love binding you and your family together. If they scold you and call you 'names', it's probably because they are hurt by your behavior. From what you have volunteered, you are going out with a married man (who also hurts you) - that hurts your family, may be.

Love for a family and love for a boy friend are two different things
you don't mix them, yet you don't separate them
you equally keep them.

Think about how you'll feel if your younger brother is dating a married woman? Appreciate your family's love and regain their love.

Answer 4

:| GEEz. :| I have nagging parents too. There has got to be a place you can go to . A government place you can stay at. You should search online look for places that offer help and a place you can stay at. You should include the state you live in in your question: ( This is sad. Don't go with the guy either. You shouldn't let him hurt you either. Do you have a job? Get a job get a roomate. I'm sure there are many things you can do. good luck and don't lose hope. :| You deserve better than a boyfriend like that :|

Answer 5

Through adversity comes strength.
Rely on yourself more. If you don't like living with your parents, leave. Your old enough to look after your self. If your boyfriend hurts you, leave him to. You deserve a better life.
Find your own place. To do this you will need to have a job. Maybe try moving to a different area to get away from the people who abuse you.
Always strive for a better life.

Answer 6

I guess something is wrong with you. Either you are doing something which your family doesnt like OR everybody in your family is mentally disturbed.

Since you are a girl, everybody would show sympathy momentarily with you and later he will sexually exploit you and will not keep you forever.

So first option will be...leave bad habits if any and coolely talk to your family specially mother/father and be happy.

Secondly, if parents really do not like you then talk to your boyfrnd and tell him that you want to leave soon and so he shud marry you. If he loves u he will do it fast.

Thanks

Answer 7

Get a job.Stop sleeping with multiple people.Earn some money and get a place of your own.If you are too bad off, go and complain to the nearest Police Station about your predicament.
Don't wear vulgar clothes.Dump that boyfriend.

Answer 8

You need to get an education. Check with your local community collage about taking classes while working on you GED. Check with your college councilor about available grants and look for local employment opportunities for students. Dump you boy friend. Stop the cycle of letting men hurt you

Answer 9

dont marry to leave home. when you are abused by anyone call the police, you do not have to take that. your bf hits you now, how bad do you think he will beat after he marries you. an abusive person will only get worse as time goes on. you need to see a professional counsuler

Answer 10

first of all, i think u should report ur family to social services, then get urself a job and leave that married man cos he's never going to leave his wife cos that will even hurt u the more, and very soon u will find a guy who will appreciate u and love u only.
good luck.

Answer 11

it sounds like your in a totally bad situation everywhere. if you allow the abuse with the family thats why you allow it with your boyfriend. low self-esteem. if he's married and claims to love you, its more of a booty call and what makes you think he won't cheat on you? anyone who is married that claims to be getting a divorce and wants you to wait to get married is using you. divorces can be done in very short times. your best bet is to contact the abuse lines for women and get out of their and start out fresh as the centers will help. otherwise your going to be worse off then you are or worse. best of luck.