My brother has been getting on my nerves he is to over protective
he is always mad for no reason . He is always in my face about stupid things come on i am 16 and not a baby what should i do to get him off my back
2006-06-20 20:13:28 · 11 answers · asked by sweetnspice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, you could try to live with 5 of them. I grew up with 5 boys in the house and all doing strange things at different times. I just thanked God every day I was a girl and now that we are older they are saying that I'm doing strange things at different times...gee how time changes perspectives.
First he's a teenager and teenagers have the ability to be a camelion. He can change like day and night in seconds. Anger is just a form of trying to figure out who he really is and what his limitations are. Maybe he isn't getting enough sleep that can do it.
My brothers used to do the same thing, get on me about cleaning the house too good...what??? I had lunch at school they had to take theirs? So, I gave them all a free year of school lunches a couple of years ago for christmas. Remember we are in our 40,50,60's. They used to cut the hair off my dolls and then give them back. They would lock me in the tree house and take the ladder away, they were supposed to be babysitting, Dad always came to the rescue around 5 in the evening. They took my boyfriends off to the side on the first date and asked questions like "What are your future goals, how are you going to support my sister, hopefully you are headed for success because she only deserves the best." Then when we got into college they made sure that I got up on time by either blowing a trumpet, throwing cold water on me, or hitting me with pillows. They would follow me to school and would always make fun of my answers in class. We don't like each other now.
They don't like what they formed me into.....but it keeps them out of my way and after 18 years of them I'm glad I only see them once in a while.
He will lighten up, just don't get mad, that's what he's feeding on right now. Turn the tables, when he says something stupid like where were you and why didn't you call. Just respond "Gee Dad I didn't think you cared." After a few turns of the clock like that the fun is gone and I think he'll give it up.
As for the anger, it doesn't leave until they are 20 plus.....sorry, he's just trying to find out who he really is, patience is a virtue on this one.
Good luck, just try to stay friends, you are all you will have someday.
2006-06-20 20:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
brothers are brothers...... I have an older one too.... and in our teens he tried the big brother act..... I am strong willed and told him to butt out, wish I had not done that..... sit down and tell him how you feel.. giving him the credit he desires for watching over you is important to him, so let him know you do appreciate him watching but that you do wish he would watch a little farther away........ if you are kind and respectful and a young lady about it all, I think you will see an improvement in his actions........ but you are blessed to have a caring brother, so please be careful of what and how you say to him........ God bless
2006-06-20 21:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to sleep with his friends... like 4 or 5 of them. It may be an empty threat, but he wouldn't take a risk and piss you off enough to do it.
Don't actually do it though.... once it's done, you lose that edge and he'll just make your life a living hell.
Also, bear in mind that he probably means well and it is his JOB to scare the living **** out of every guy you talk to.
2006-06-20 20:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by smokingun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess the age difference between u guys is really less so he doesn't needs to be overprotective but yeah protective is fine.........u shud try and solve the matter by talking to eachother.......... u shud be like frnds more than elder brother and younger sister in these cases
2006-06-20 20:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a gal maybe one of sum1 u kno that u don't like th@ much 2 keep him occupied.
He would be to busy to "overprotect u"
2006-06-20 20:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Powie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Same thing with me. my broth 17 and I'm 19. We always fight. when I'm fed up i just go to my grandma's place and stay. best way to avoid him for long.
2006-06-20 20:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by a girl frm nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to get off ur back cos u r not a baby or tell ur parents about it.
2006-06-21 01:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 16 and my little sister is 13, and i see that boys are starting to really pay att. to her. She feels that Im over protective some times but I know wat Im doin.
2006-06-20 20:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Lemons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to stay away from him so he cant tell you what to do. Talk to your parents about this.....maybe that will help.
2006-06-20 21:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by DB9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch him in the nuts. or sleep with his best friend. :]
2006-06-20 20:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by hello_dickbag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋