He gets jealous if a guy friend comes around and i dont introduce them but he also gets jealous when i do introduce them i have two friends named nick one i introduced him to the other i didnt he used two different excuses for being jealous im confused about this someone tell me a good answer
2006-06-20 20:06:48 · 13 answers · asked by dorothy a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz he loves you and wannts to protect u
2006-06-20 20:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by leishie!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be very insecure in your relationship. Maybe he's been hurt severely in the past. Just make sure you aren't sending off signals that you may be looking somewhere else. That can be very devastating and may may him act jealous. Talk to him about it. He will probably deny that he's jealous but convey the message to him that you love him and only him. Tell how special he is to you. Tell him what made you love him. This guy needs a little reassurance. Now...if he doesn't change and his jealousy gets worse and he starts trying to isolate you from everyone then end it with him immediately. Extreme jealousy and isolation are red flags of an abuser and you don't need all that. Good luck honey.
2006-06-20 20:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of guesswork here, but I'll give you a few angles from a man's perspective.
There's a possibility that your boyfriend might be jealous because he's lacking self esteem or that he doesn't trust you for some reason. You may not even be flirty or have even done anything to jeopardize this trust! Maybe he was hurt in a previous relationship where his partner cheated on him and he's just unsure what to think or how to react with you. Maybe this is a new relationship? If so, give it time. Once you've given him every reason to truly trust you and show him that he has no reason to worry about you with other men, he may start to relax. Show him how he can trust you and how you're uniquely different from other women.
2006-06-20 20:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by vincejacobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys get jealous for two reasons. 1) you're playing games. by trying to show him how cool you are, you're actually making him think that you've got all these guys around and that he's not the only guy that wants you. 2) he's insecure and young...hasn't figured out who he is yet. you figure out which it is or both.
2006-06-20 20:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a boy... try clinging on to your bf when you're making an introduction... Some guys are territorial.. and he MIGHT appreciate it if you act all clingy to him while you intro another guy to him... kinda like you taking the initiative to show "territorial markings"...
I know it's silly but it isn't sexist coz I know at least ONE woman who like that too... :)
2006-06-20 20:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo's Belfry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People feel jealous when they are not very confident about themselves or they don't have confidence in their partner. Both are not good sign. Think twice before you commit anything with this guy.
2006-06-20 20:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is very possive about you He cant see u beside anyone else than himself . I think you had aboyfriend with excessive love ,you can ignore your other friends in his presence than watch for his attitude
2006-06-20 20:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by suppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure of his self. also sounds like he has low self esteem too. GUESS what it gets worse too. ID move on lest he gets violent.
2006-06-20 20:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how we are. i try as hard as i can to not get jealus. its a waste of time to get jealus. my gf chose me, not the other guys. thats it =)
who cares about other guys! plus, if she cheats, its HER mistake not mine and i can live with that better then if it were my mistake. glass half full relationship. gotta love it
2006-06-20 20:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Oh, Natey-O! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in his head he's picturing that guy ******* you, and thats the truth, so no more guy friends!
2006-06-20 20:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he loves u and he cares abt U alot,but this jealousy should have border...when its 2much it start 2b annoying,good luck sweety
2006-06-20 20:13:44 · answer #11 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋