Any parents Living out there?I have a family problem?

Question

I am a boy
I thinkMy father is investing very much which makes my life miserable
I asked my father to buy a desk, then he made it worse in quality of the wood and nails
And when I complain he says "SOn after all! when I do a job you know only to complain on its quality?"
And since day 1 I wished my mom came near to me and said
I bought you this files and organizers lets worktogether and clean up this mess?"(My room was a mess since the day I went year 1 at school)
When some thing happens they dont understand me(Like when I was with a friend who comes home and cutts CD's they think that hes taking advantage, But he doesnt he gives me some CD's too)
NOw because of the desk Im suffering and I feel bored to work
But I give all my might to do.

Please dont tell me to tell them about this I have tried.
HELP ME?

We are not financialy DOWN
Both are engineers
My freind cutts his own CD's
My daddy didnt make it he Gave it to a nonertheless contracter
I love my dad the way he loves me
He doesnt understand me

Answer 1

You want a desk, your dad works hard to builfd you one and you complain and it's his fault. Your rooms a mess, you made it a mess and you want your mom to clean it up for you. You're just ungrateful. You could have helped ytour dad with the desk and didn't. You could clean up your own room and don't. Don't blame your parents for ding the best they can even though it might not live up to your expected standards! Yuo're the one with the problem and your problem is not your parents, it's your attitude. You need to learn to be humble and greatful. Until then, quit your complaining and get off you butt and do things for yourself for a change!

Answer 2

Dearest Troubled Teen(?)

I wasn't able to completely understand what you wrote due to some missing words, phrases, etc., but if I got the gist of it, what you're going through is completely normal with your parents. There are things about you that your parents will never understand, but the basic premise is that they love you a looooot. Is desk really worth the feeling you have towards them. 'Just accept them as they are. Soon, they'll learn to accept you the way you are. They want to build some financial security, which is not always easy these days, so they don't have to hassle you about money when they get old, and even have enough to leave some behind for you. Trying to do that can get very tiresome and stressful because it doesn't always go smoothly. So, they might get cranky, but they do mean well.

'Just count to 10 when you get frustrated and smile it away. Good nature joking about tough situation is always a good diffusive strategy. Hang in there, kiddo. Before you know it, you'll grow up and get your own place with your desk.

Answer 3

I'm a parent but was a child once too believe it or not. Really I understand. This is what I learned to do when Mom made an ugly outfit for me. I woundn't say or do alot. Of course I'd never wear it by the time she really thought of it I'd find all sorts of reasons--forgetting I had it to small torn etc. The desk you have think of a way to make it better like make it fall apart and very dangerous to you. Try making a comment to Mom like wishing you knew someone you could work with to get everything organized. Alot of times it's best to not let parents know about friends giving/taking.

Answer 4

I just have to say this, when your living under your parents roof, its their rules. Simple as that. When you are old enough to move out of home, buy a new desk! My parents were very stingy (tight) when i was growing up, hardly ever had anything new. I didnt like it , purely for peer pressure etc, But now I am grown up and am a parent myself. My parents are very well off and are very generous with my family. I might have gone without, but now my parents can enjoy their lives. They are wealthy enough to enjoy their retirement years . I would rather that, then they be poor and me being a spoilt brat and not grateful for all they did give me.

Be grateful. If you dont like it, tough. Move out, get a job and buy yourself whatever makes you happy. But it wont. You will see when you get older. Material objects are worth nothing if you dont have a loving family to share it with :p

Answer 5

It sounds like you asked your dad for a desk, which he did but then he damaged it? And you wish your mom would help you organize it? And now you're stuck with a desk you don't like and is frustrating?

Rats! If he hadn't gotten you a desk, you could still hope for one, but now you're stuck with this crummy one, which you can't get rid of, because he'll get mad.

Could you say to your mom "I don't understand how to organize this, can you help me?" Sometimes if we show we need help, people want to help--after all it makes them look smart.

I know it's hard, but try being thankful for something--anything you can think of. If you can be thankful for something it helps you feel better and then you're able to deal with the problems instead of feeling so depressed.

Answer 6

I'm sure he's investing for your future so you will be comfortable. Now far as your friend cutting Cd's he is taking advantage of you if he doesn't offer you something. You paid for that CD tell him to go buy his own or let you borrow some of his. Parents are here to help us they won't tell us nothing that will hurt us OK!

Answer 7

pay attention in school and learn the engilish a bit better then maybe they will love you enough to get you a better desk....

Answer 8

what did you want us to say? you just stated you told them.MOVE OUT THEN . GET your own place to stay.