2006-06-20 19:54:59 · 29 answers · asked by deecat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say the truth. Most of us don't like to hear what is true about us. But, if you want to fell good with yourself just said the way you ask. Well not to offend you, but remember that day that we have sex I think I need to show you how to do it.
2006-06-20 20:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the personality of the guy. You know your guy, or at least we all hope you know something about him. Some guys want it straight. I prefer this approach. Hey you suck in bed. Other guys need to be complimented into being better in bed.
Just do what feel right, and hopefully soon it will feel right. Also, remember that no matter what the approach, it is something as sensitive as the way you smell.
2006-06-21 03:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by JustJake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy: tell him "you need practice." This effectively informs him of the situation, and at the same time implies something any guy would appreciate; he gets to have PRACTICE!! Of course, if you're not willing to provide him with said practice, then it's really quite pointless to tell him in the first place, unless you just want to insult him. In that situation, it wouldn't matter to you if he got better anyway.
2006-06-21 03:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reply him in an enthusiastic way when you are on the bed with him and tell him that you feel on your best when you are with him in the bed.
2006-06-21 03:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by buttar506 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't tell him that, but there's something u could do to make things better for u guys. GET ON TOP!
That way you could control it and do whatever u want with it.
Right ? I bet he'd enjoy that too.
2006-06-21 03:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell the poor guy - just show him yourself what you like and where you like to be touched. Make appreciative noises when he gets it right, put his hands where you want them to be, etc.
Take charge - don't hurt his ego - men don't get over these things quickly!
2006-06-21 02:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to say they were not good in bed. You just need to communicate what you need differently. Explain what gets you off...what you like most...your fantasies. If they want to please you they should be up and ready to do that for you.
2006-06-21 03:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by pizzagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of telling him it wasn't great and killing his ego
try telling him things you would like him to do...to make it better for you
2006-06-21 02:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him he wasn't great tell him how he would make it better for u also ask what you could do to make better for him. it take two to make luv honey.
2006-06-21 03:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by tango 62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you didnt inspire him to perform at his best. Besides it was supposed to be about love not performance.
2006-06-21 03:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋